I have a crush on my boyfriends friend. Help?

[Anonymous]

A few days ago I finally met two of my boyfriends friends. One of them... Holy shit. He is my ideal man in every way. Our sense of humour aligned, he was attractive and we got on well together. Since then I haven’t stopped thinking about him, and feel EXTREMELY guilty.

I told my boyfriend about this because I knew I had to be honest with him about it, and he obviously wasn’t very happy but changed the subject and moved on, suggested I don’t see him again for a while.

How do I get over this crush? It’s unfair on my boyfriend but I can’t stop thinking about him. Logically I know I don’t want his friend, but monkey brain tells me “he’s sexy, we should think about him right now.” Advice please!

[lancecantee]

Clone him. Modern science can create clones of anyone. Just kidding. There are always more fish in the sea, which means there is always another person to choose to be happy with. Thus, you can always find someone else, or choose a person. Happiness is a state of mind. You can't expect someone to just waltz along and complete you, a lot of it is completing yourself first and loving the other person along the way. ... Plus cloning. (Kidding again, don't clone them).

[Luckycharms12]

You barley no the dude he could be horrible for all you know easy get on with someone at the start

[Iron_Man]

You better get past it real fast before you become a cheater