I have a crush on my boyfriends friend. Help?

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A few days ago I finally met two of my boyfriends friends. One of them... Holy shit. He is my ideal man in every way. Our sense of humour aligned, he was attractive and we got on well together. Since then I haven’t stopped thinking about him, and feel EXTREMELY guilty.

I told my boyfriend about this because I knew I had to be honest with him about it, and he obviously wasn’t very happy but changed the subject and moved on, suggested I don’t see him again for a while.

How do I get over this crush? It’s unfair on my boyfriend but I can’t stop thinking about him. Logically I know I don’t want his friend, but monkey brain tells me “he’s sexy, we should think about him right now.” Advice please!
I have a crush on my boyfriends friend. Help?
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