I hope you can help me good. I have a crush on my boyfriend friend. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. I don't think his friend has a crush on me though, but never know. His friend is very nice and he makes a jokes on me which we laugh a lot. It seems sometimes like he flirts with me. I love my boyfriend very much, but I like his friend also, more than I thought. Before I just thinked about him as a friend, now as a crush. What to do?
The connection you feel with the friend is probably a connection you are lacking with your boyfriend. I don’t believe you are in love with this guy, otherwise you still wouldn’t be with your boyfriend. I think you are in love with the feelings and interactions because they are something new and exciting. Perhaps it’s time for you and your boyfriend to experience something new within your relationship; maybe an adventure or something that excites the both of you.
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Any time you start having a wandering eye for someone else I think it shows there’s something lacking in your relationship. You should figure out why you aren’t fully content and in the mean time hang around his friend less. To even consider there has been flirting means you are heading down a path that can land you in mistakes you can’t take back. Don’t let it get to that point and do the right thing now, it’s a guilt you never want to live with.
Are you attracted enough to him to consider cheating with him?
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Maybe you're not as attracted to your boyfriend as you thought you were. Maybe you're still discovering what your type is.
Please don't cheat on your boyfriend. If I were you, I would completely avoid that friend. You should think about your relationship. Is something missing?
Either ignore your feelings for his friend, or break up and move on to other guys.
you want to sleep with him?
You aren't in love with your boyfriend. Move on
Having 2-3 boyfriend at a time it's not a crime..
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