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slong story short. early into a new relationship after a long break. took me sometimes to get over previous experiences and process all the lessons. My new partner is having some issues that he is working on and I am aware of this - we communicate. One of our common problems at the moment we are both living in house shares - I am more of a mover (every 3-4 months I move elsewhere), and he has been at his place for years (sharing with a landlord an older female who is single and into dogs). He hasn't been happy there for a while, and he doesn't want me to be there when she is around saying nothing good will come out of me meeting this person. He has got a plan on moving out as soon as financially gets better, we are hoping this will happen before the end of this year.

Without meeting her and based on my partner's reaction I know it gets very stressful for him if his housemate doesn't get what she wants (she gets him to look after the house, pets, and her sometimes), so he is all worked up and lashes out on me some times. I find this really unhealthy, but also realise he is the love of my life and know I mean as much to him. I feel there is an unhealthy attachment to his house share from his end, and that he is being played by a more superior and experienced person who wants him around (knowing he is a very carrying person she gets more pets so that she can get his attention). He told me he felt he was stuck there and wanted out. I told him I would like him out of that place as soon as possible - saying this isn't fair on me when he is all stressed and not able to focus on us, and that i don't get to spend time around his place. He tries to smooth things out at his place to lessen the stress, but then he gets into this animal carer role, which still takes away his attention from us (txting, running late, talking about rescue dogs etc). This is affecting us. Trying to be supportive and understanding, but at the end of my tether. please help with advice. thank