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Are We Friends? (Boo You Whore)

No but seriously, are we friends?


Friends are the closest people to you aside from your parents, siblings, family members and partners (that’s if you aren’t single). They are supposed to be a source of support, source of positive vibes and also a source of people that would know how completely psychotic you can be if shit got serious (like I would totally wear a full black ninja outfit to kill someone for a friend and make it look like an accident since I have seen an entire season of How To Get Away With Murder…Thank you Viola Davis J).


However what if your friend wasn’t being a friend, what if they were just using you or even worse being a complete Regina George from Mean Girls (because Regina George is so fetch right?). Okay so here are some things you can do if you plan on ending a friendship with someone you know is similar to a Regina George.


Are We Friends? (Boo You Whore)


1. Know you’re making a right decision


Are We Friends? (Boo You Whore)


Why be a part of the mean girl group for? Though they may wear Pink only on Wednesdays, still think to yourself why be a part of a group that isn’t who you are as a person. Anyone that is rude isn’t what you want to keep around for company (who you hang around with eventually you become also). Don’t let what they say bother you when you make your decision because unlike them you have taken the high road and knowing your life is going to be much better with less “Real Housewives” drama.


2. Keep Your Head Up


Are We Friends? (Boo You Whore)


Don’t have second thoughts. Be fearless and a leader to say “No, I don’t want to be a part of your clique and no, I don’t care to wear Pink only on Wednesdays to look cool.” It takes more guts to stand on your own than to follow people and be one of the sheep. It will be hard to stand alone (I won’t sugar coat it) it will suck, however you’ll meet new friends, friends you can be yourself around and feel excited to be around all the time and knowing you can wear and do whatever you like without any form of judgement.


3. The Longer You Stay The Longer You’ll Feel Pain


Are We Friends? (Boo You Whore)


I remember I had this one good friend, I loved her so much she was a sister to me and yet she sucked out all of the happiness I had. Becoming depressed in a friendship is a bad sign, staying in one knowing you’re depressed is worse. You need to realize when a friendship becomes toxic and unhealthy you need to walk away, no more pretending, no more excuses just cut the cord and know that though it will take a while to get the smile back, just know it will come.


4. Reflect On What You’ve Learned


Are We Friends? (Boo You Whore)


Never think an end of a friendship is a failure. There is always something to learn. Take the time to look back on your friendship and see what you’ve learned as a person (what you like vs what you don’t like). Every friendship (regardless good or bad) has to teach us something and has to let us grow as a person all the time. Whatever the lesson, appreciate it for what it is. Once you have done some reflecting you need to then mentally forgive yourself along with the friend you left behind. Don’t hold onto any form of resentment that might have initialed the end of the friendship. Holding any form of negative emotion will only hold you back from meeting new amazing friends.



Alrighty so those are 4 things you need to do during and after breaking a friendship. Comment below on what you consider a healthy relationship or when to walk away from a toxic friendship. Also message me about topics you’d like for me to write about. Thank you guys/ girls and god bless :) <3

Are We Friends? (Boo You Whore)
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