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I requested this girl almost a year ago, and we got talking and we connected right away. We got through the casual conversation and she opened up to me about her issues with family, her ex, and issues she was going through.
The only downside was she was two hours away going to college, but we had been in highschool together. She came down for Thanksgiving, but we couldn't get together, but she stopped by my work on black Friday with her family to say hi.
We kept talking and I thought we were getting really close and I connected with her so much, I even told her I was falling for her. We were supposed to spend her month break together through December and January. The day she came down, I changed to an opening shift, went to pick her up, even brought her roses, and she was a completely different person. She wouldn't say anything to me the whole ride.
While we were having dinner, she said she just had a migraine, and afterwards she asked me to take her home. She said that she felt terrible, but she wasn't over her ex like she thought she was, and she didn't feel ready to date me. She thought she was, and I could tell she was really upset.
I had the love of my life reject my marriage proposal earlier that year, and I knew her pain.
I gave her a brief kiss on the cheek and told her I understood. She hugged me several times and went back inside her parents place.
Over the next two months, she barely talked to me. She'd say she'd come over to see me, but would cancel. She'd talk to me about her ex over and over and she agreed to some plans for Valentine's day, but cancelled those too.
I was sad and she got mad at me for being sad and snapped at me, and at that point I had enough.
I unfriended her on Facebook, and after not hearing from her for a week, I blocked her and never heard from her.
It's been since March, and I felt bad for what I did, I felt guilty and gave into my friends and requested her last week, and she immediately denied it
I don't feel I was wrong Was I?

Short description

I was brought up the wrong way in life, was bullied and ostracized and grew up with almost no friends. People who were supposed to be the role models in my life were not very good role models at all, biological father left when I was 5, a bipolar narcissistic mother, a racist and sexist step father for the majority of my childhood, second step father never worked a day in his life and has no financial balance, older sister was on drugs and became a teenage mother, older brother was always in and out of juvenile detention and also became a teenage father. With all the people people I was surrounded and grew up with and all the bed events that happened while I was still developing, I quit school when I was 17 when my grandmother passed away and spent the next couple of years locked away in my room living at mom's house and living on her allowance, dealing with depression, anxiety and other mental and physiological issues due to my past.

Never got my driver's license until 20 (almost 21
Got my first job at 21
Started lifelong career at 22.5 (also self employed
got my first car at 24
Turning 25 in November and just getting ready to move out of my mom's house

It's been a long journey and I'm proud of the man I've become basically on my own. But when I hear people say that they had their first job at 14, license and car at 16 and moved out at 18 tends to discourage me and I feel far behind. I try to look at the positives.

I'm still young
I make better lifestyle habits
I have no kids
I have no addictions (which runs in the family
I have $0 in debt (never went to college and I also paid back my mom
I have a great credit score
I have an actual mortgage on a nice house
I make enough to support me and a stay at home partner