Search Results: guys and long term relationships

What to do when a guy says he is not ready for a new relationship?

He says he wants to be alone for a while because he just got out of a long term relationship - which i fully understand. My question is, should i keep seeing him hoping it will lead to something eventually when he is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was it a mistake to tell a guy that I liked him or too early?

We started dating about a month ago, slept together twice, a week ago... he got out of a long term relationship about half a year ago. He's very busy with work. I was flirty... sent flirty pictures and he said that they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Online dating during covid and decoding a guys on/off texting habits?

I met this guy through a dating app in beginning of December and have been texting him ever since. We couldn't meet up the first two weeks due to our busy schedules (my finals and his college graduation/important...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I wait and let her make contact first?

Went on a couple of dates with my friends sister back in later summer. We had both just came out of long term relationships. Hit ot off well but with we live a couple of hours away from each other. When Covid restrictions...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to tell where you stand with a guy you're talking to and what he thinks about you?

There's this guy I've been mostly messaging with for the past couple weeks since a few days before Christmas. We've talked once on messenger call, on new year's eve. I'm unsure because that's the only time we actually...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m dating someone, but I’m interested in someone else?

I (19f) started dating my boyfriend (20m) in September 2020. he's an amazing guy, so lovely and thoughtful and nothing has gone wrong in regards to us. However due to the pandemic we’ve been unable to really see each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

The Silent Struggle of Male Vulnerability and Women Who Dont Care

Every have a wife or girlfriend that comes to you with her vulnerability guys? Men are culturally expect to comfort them and show strength and understanding. Be her rock, as they say. Ever notice that when a guy opens up...

Apope16

Editor Age: 39

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Achieving career and personal goals is a critical ingredient when it comes to dating?

Hello, I would appreciate some advice or thoughts regarding this as I'm a 24-year-old female turning 25 this year, and to be honest, I have no dating experience except for a four-month back and forth high school "fling"...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, How to initiate/get your guy in the mood when in a very long term relationship Amd you’ve been in a long sexual rut?

Okay, so i really just want to get it on with my boyfriend of 14 years. But we have been in a dry spell for several months now. Life has gotten in the way, health issues, stress, you name it. We’ve been hit hard. To make...

7empest77

Xper 3 Age: 37

Finding Love, and What I Think about Relationships!

This myTake is most probably going to turn into a personal rant that I am going to regret in the future. But these are just thoughts stewing and brewing in my mind and I needed to get them out, especially because I...

CubsterShura

Editor Age: 25

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What makes a 'stud' or a 'ladies man' unable to maintain one long-term relationship?

It's kind of an unpopular opinion, but men who impress women a lot with their charms and looks and all that aren't all that impressive to me. Not that I think they are bad or anything, they know how to impress women and...

CubsterShura

Editor Age: 25

Why do I hardly ever get hit on?

I think I’m pretty. Other people tell me I am pretty/ beautiful. I am independent. I am funny. I work hard and take good care of myself. I don’t need anyone for anything, I just want someone. A companion. Someone to share...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Been in a relationship for 4-5 years, what do I do?

So, my partner and I have been together for 4-5 years. At this current stage we've been living together for 2-3 years now, she's had no one to support her I've always been the one helping, driving her places, picking her...

Altalize

Xper 4 Age: 32

Experience with online dating?

Hey guys! :) I tried a bunch of different apps like tinder, okcupid and coffeemeetsbagel but didn't feel like I found someone I really connected with. by the way I'm looking for a long-term serious relationship, nothing...

galway_gal

Xper 3 Age: 31

Men, are you intimated by beautiful and high maintenance woman? Would you rather settle down with a plan Jane?

I come across as quite maintenance woman and snobby but if the man stayed long enough to get to know me, they would see I am a very sweet and innocent girl. I have noticed most of my relationships have been short term I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How often should I text the guy I'm seeing?

Been dating a guy for 3 months now (this is my first time dating whilst he has been in a long term relationship) and I'm worried I'm texting him far too much. We text everyday but it is almost always me initiating the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Confessions of a Ladies Man-Women get wet for a guy with values, standards, and is on his purpose!

Being a man with values and standards in life makes you a king. An alpha. A noble and honorable gentleman. If you don't have that then you are NOT a man. We have a society that has brainwashed men into thinking that...

Apope16

Editor Age: 39

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Religion & Spirituality

Why are people scared of religion?

I am dating a guy who believes in nature only and i am Christian, we basically had a conversation about religion and for sure he respects that, but in somehow i feel he is afraid to come into a long term relationship with...

Sofia123sofia

Xper 4 Age: 27