Confessions of a Ladies Man-Women get wet for a guy with values, standards, and is on his purpose!

[Apope16]

Being a man with values and standards in life makes you a king. An alpha. A noble and honorable gentleman. If you don't have that then you are NOT a man.

We have a society that has brainwashed men into thinking that having values and standards is a bad thing. It is not. Society has brainwashed men into thinking that breaking up with a woman and walking away forever if she doesn't meet them then it makes a man an asshole. It does not.

Don't let society turn you from being a grown, independent man into a puppy dog begging for sex from women.

Gentlemen, you are not a puppy dog. You are a LION. You are the king of your kingdom.

Recently, I fell in love with a woman after 12 days. Yep. I wanted to settle down with this woman, build my investment career, build my wealth, start a family, and settle down. She told me that she was in love with me and wanted me to travel with her around the world. If I couldn't go with her then she would come back after she took on an English teaching job in another country for 6 months.

My needs as a man in a relationship are:

1. Physical Touch

2. Quality Time

3. Sex

Those are some basic standards that I have. If she is gone 1/2 a year does she meet them? NO! So what do you think I did? That's right. I walked away. I wished her the best. She is a free bird, I am a tree. Her standards don't match mine. I let her go.

She cried. She begged and pleaded. She was texting me non stop. She wanted me to change my mind.

Too bad. I know my purpose. I know what I want. I let her go. I have an alpha mindset of abundance. On to a new girl. One that fits my lifelong purpose. One that matches what I want in life. A girl I can come home to not a vagabond traveler.

A man must be on his purpose. He must have standards. He must know that when he works on himself (works out in the gym & makes money & has hobbies) then the women and sex will come.

A man is not desperate for sex because he knows he can attain it. He isn't a puppy. He is a LION.

Be on your purpose Gentleman. Walk away from ladies and wish them well.

If you EVER find a woman who fits your purpose long-term? CHERISH THAT WOMAN!

I have spoken.

[Levin]

Good points, well raised.

I wonder how much the simps and incels on this site will be educated and most importantly, take responsibility for their lives?

However, I would be willing to wait for the right person. The fact that you wouldn't, implies that she was not it.

[Apope16]

Thanks! Stay tuned. She said baby i miss you and is coming home early new years Eve. we will talk about future ideas then.

[Jamie05rhs]

I do have values. Therefore, I'm not trying to make anyone wet. That would be cheating, in my opinion (cheating at the game.). I don't want to seduce her physically. I want to win her heart intellectually.

[Barbaric]

You won't win a woman's heart intellectually.

[Jamie05rhs]

Then she doesn't deserve to be my wife.

[Wewladdy]

You're making a mistake in thinking women even can be intellectuals

[Jamie05rhs]

@Wewladdy I disagree. Plenty are intellectual.

[Apope16]

@Barbaric YOU NEVER WIN A WOMAN WITH HER BRAIN. ONLY HER HEART.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. That's what I said.

[Bee-Hatch]

Still spouting bollocks?


It's nice the site let's you post stuff in between doing their tasks so they don't have to pay for a staff.

[Apope16]

Did you have anything specific to say about what is posted above? Or are you just obsessed with me?

One thing I have found, and I should probably to a take about this... but one thing I have found is women get very angry when some speaks the truth about them. The truth triggers women. Guys too. I have posts about how silly guys are too. So its not just hating women.

[Tentia]

You're both wrong, damn.

[Tentia]

But Apope16 moreso, possibly because Bee-Hatch didn't say more than a diss, but I won't assume that's the case.

[MsLivy]

How can you make some great points about relationships being 2 individuals whilst also sound like you wack yourself off staring into a mirror?

[Apope16]

I think when I message women on dating apps online that is what women think of me. I think you are exactly right. But... even though they say what you are saying in their head they find me unique and interesting in a weird way. So they agree to go on a date with me. Then when they meet me in person they realize I am not an intense asshole but actually a relaxed, easy going, charming, and goofy guy who adores women. The mystery of MyTake man v. Real Life Man gets them extremely horny and then they invite me to their place and we have sex.

After we have sex or start dating or whatever. Then I come home and write on GAG about my knowledge and experiences. Women and Men get pissed off and go crazy. But I continue following my principles in real life... after my 2 year relationship ended in 2016.. I have had 3 sex partners on average every year. This year I have had sex with 5 girls. When I say this I am not talking about one night stands. I am saying 5 sexual partners where we date a few months until I realize they are not the one.

Anyways, thank you so much for your reply! I want you to know that I really appreciate your thoughts and the weird compliment. I am hoping that in 2021 I find the love of my life and I can move on with just sleeping a new girl after every few months of dating. :)

[MsLivy]

If it works for you and you ain't hurting people you do your thing I got no fuss.

Drifting about is not a bad thing and sex is a plus 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Apope16]

I really like you! Yes. Most of my relationships after my 2 year relationship when I lived with my ex girlfriend have been agreed upon friends with benefits. That's all I have needed.

The most recent situation described in the note basically happened in the last 2 weeks. LIke this girl I am crazy for her! But it's only been 12 days. She is begging me to be in a relationship. She wants me to go to Mexico with her but I can't. I have a job here. I can't go there for 6 months. THat's not my lifestyle. She goes job to job every 6 months and travels the world. LIves poor on scraps. I am about building a future, building wealth, putting on my suit and tie so I can build a family working years in a firm. She's not ready to stay in one place. So yeah, she is angry at me. She is texting me pissed off today saying "partners shouldn't give up and believe in each other". all this stuff. But she is a free bird and I am a tree. So yeah. I cried last night. I have feelings. But I have standards. I gotta move on to the next girl. Talking to 2 chics right now setting up new dates. Gotta be on my purpose. I want to come home to my girl and do fun things together. Not come home to an empty bed. Gotta be on my purpose. ON my standards.

[MsLivy]

Like I said, make it crystal clear your boundaries and rules and go from there, its what I do and I feel like it's fair.

No bs or wording around it just be clear, emotions hurt so keep that in mind

[MsLivy]

Thank for the mho

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Okay let me get this straight... you're not desperate for sex, but you can't go six months without it, to keep a woman you're in love with?

Sounds to me like sex plays such a central role in your life that it trumps things most men would consider to be more important.

While I agree with you that having purpose and standards and working on yourself is extremely important, it sounds like you just shot yourself in the foot emotionally because you don't have the stamina to go without sex for a little while.

[Tentia]

You're almost as bad, sorry dude. You misinterpreted what he said, and then accused him of a lack of self control. I'm fairly certain he has more of that than you atm.

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

@Tentia Right. Because letting go of a woman he admits he fell in love with just because he won't get sex indicates rock-solid willpower and self control. Y'all are nutters if you think that's indicative of a healthy mental state.

[Tentia]

@HungLikeAHorsefly Some people have a more sexual approach to love, and he seems to be one of those people, he is also someone who cares more about the physical presence of his partner than a lot of other things. It's also bad practice to say as a general if/then statement that someone is one way for thinking a specific thought. I'd prefer you to PM me if you want to continue this, arguing about him in public will just inflate his massive ego.

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

@Tentia I get that, and I think that having sex as your primary focus isn't even remotely an "alpha mindset". I don't think you can truly love someone if that's your primary consideration for being with them. I think there's more to this story than the OP is letting on. Not actually having loved that woman would explain things.

[Tentia]

He probably thinks of the word differently.

[Wewladdy]

I'm not reading a post this long with that title lmao

[lucas262]

More accurately in my opinion if you stand up for your morals. Standards and values be prepared for people to try and cut you down like a tree.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I’m glad you’re happy

[Iknowbestgirls]

Actually I'm a wolf!!

[Ali9994]

Women get wet for a tall man and a tall man only

[Anonymous]

Hakuna Matata.