Being a Ladies Man I have spent decades as a man in the “Best Friend” zone. I go to clubs with groups of women. I spend alone time with women. They share with me their deepest darkest thoughts, secrets, stories. I have also been in the room with groups of ladies as they share their dating stories. Here is what I have learned.
Women are Attention Vultures
There are a lot of women on dating sites who will match with you and agree to go on a date with you simply because they are lonely and bored. Guys, unless you follow my advice and recognize the signs you won’t realize that their flaky behavior is because they don’t even like you. They want you as their dating app pen pal for ATTENTION and EGO.
Making A Move on the 1st or 2nd Date Reveals All
My best friend is a woman. She recently told me a story of how she flirted with a guy online and then agreed to a second date at the guy’s apartment. She kept flirting but never liked him simply because she was bored and lonely. Then after making out with him said no to sex. Guys, if you are on a date and a woman treats you as platonic they don’t like you. If they say things like “being classy” or “taking things slow” it means you are friendzoned and they are just dating you for their own ego. If a woman is weird about being physical with you on a date? She doesn’t like you. She is playing GAMES. Cut ties nicely and move on.
Women Use Sex or Flirtation to Manipulate Men
I was once out for drinks with 5 female co-workers. Like always I was the only guy. Two twin sisters wanted to go to the next bar together. One of them had no money. The other blonde twin said, “Who cares if you don’t have money? Just flirt with one of the guys at the bar and he will buy you a drink.” I got up to leave.
Women Are Laughing At You
Women share texts and messages with their friends and laugh at you when they reject you and lead you on. Your heartbreak is their game.
Most Helpful Opinions
As much as a lot of this may or may be true to sone women. In the end women have the most power when it comes to dating. For me it's not even worth going on dates. I'm always paying for a interview. I feel like shit after every Date. I've had 2 fun dates, it's about it. And none worked out either way. So harsh to not hear, or hear the friend zone talk. I'd love to make new friends no problem. But wasting my time and money every date, takes a toll on you. Wish the roles were reversed, so women can feel all the crap à lot of men go through.