Confessions of a Ladies Man: Why You are a Man and Single (Stop Being a Loser!)

[Apope16]

As a "ladies man" I have spoken to a lot of women over the years. While I am done a mytake called "Why Women Are Single"

I have been holding my breath and tongue for awhile about you men out there. I have had women come to me for advice and shown me dating apps. I feel the need to call out you looser men not even worthy of a high quality woman!

You Don't Take Care of Yourself

Maybe instead of playing video games put on some face wash. Loose the acne. Take a shower. Smell like a grown man!

No Hobbies in Common

A lot of women are sick and tired of looking at small dick guys holding giant dead fish in their profiles. I get it. You are a man. But take up an interest in something that brings you both together! Get a bit metrosexual. Art, wine tasting, fashion, music, writing.

You Have No Life

Get off the couch. Do more than play video games 16 hours per day dude! Have a life she wants to be a part of!

Most men have Embarrassing Fashion

Buy a decent blazer or suit. Find an excuse to wear it once per month. Get off your couch of Cheetos and take off those loser pajama pants. Look like a GROWN man! By a polo. Tuck in your shirt. Wear a watch like a man on his purpose. See a stylist or ask lady friends for help! Guys do better than a Walmart t shirt! Come on man!

No Career/Purpose

Your goal should be $100,000/year by age 40 to be high value to women. That is a lot of work from age 21 to 40. 19 years of your life.

Have Deep Conversation

Stop it with "Hey" or "Hi". Read her profile! Ask a thoughtful question. Talk about more than the weather! A hot woman is just another girl dude. Nothing special. Watching a sports game at home is not a date!

Bachelor Pads are Sexy

Having a bachelor pad with ZERO roomates gets you laid. It shows you are a grown up.

[AzzaBlue]

I disagree with most of your take, but I respect your opinion.

[Guy13]

Not only is the dress sorely lacking, the image of a 15 year old a 25 year old games player is devastating. There nothing that turns a forthy pond into a dry desert quicker than adult men playing some video game.

[HiveBee]

I agree, and very much disagree.

This dating shit is a GAME and you gotta play.

A man can be a complete fucking BUM and get hella women. Why? Because he knows how to play the game.

Sure, the things you listed do apply to SOME guys. But personally i think the majority of guys who struggle with dating are not struggling with the listed fixes.

It's far more than these surface level things. Especially making 100K a year for a high value woman? Absolute nonsense.

What men these days need is confidence. What men need is masculinity. What men need is a sense of life, a sense of drive and action in the world. A sense of pride in their own being and a self worth that is a fire which burns from within.

Tons of men who struggle with dating check every box on your silly little list and yet they are incels.

Attracting a high quality woman comes from within a man. His presence exudes self confidence, drive, passion.

He leads others not because he is a leader. But because his presence inspires others to copy his outward facing sense of life and drive for his own selfish desire to live his best life.

Too many men are stricken with depression and anger and negative emotions because they believe this post. They believe they must make all this money and be this perfect guy with a diverse set of hobbies and blah blah blah.

You may be a ladies man i dont know. But that does not mean you are equipped to help men improve themselves in dating.

You're only talking to a very narrow slice of men who are tthe most extremely pathetic.

Also dating is a game. Just like life is a game. It's very nature is inescapable. If you dont engage and play the game of life, you die. If you dont engage and play the game of dating, you stay single.

Women desire ultimately a man who will pass down positive and survival ensuring morals, principles, attitudes, emotional solidity, and so on and so on.

What it means to be a man is so so so much. A man is built, not born. That is the game us men must play. And in my opinion we reject the game because we all have been taught that we dont have to play it.

[TruthBringer]

It seems like you have offended many here. I on the other hand agree with you. I have been working hard on my body, education, career, my style, hobbies and knowledge to be appealing to women without even needing to try at this point. So many dudes sit on their coaches playing games (something I myself enjoy doing aswel, but not before I hit the gym) and expect to be appealing to women in their baggy ass clothing with their beer bellies out (or scrawny arms).

A true man is out there hungry, hunting and achieving goals. Women want an ambitious man who knows what he wants and what he is doing. Not someone playing videogames all day. They want a hunter. And a hunter will never get what he wants if he isn't out there doing the work.

If you don't work for something, don't expect it to come to you. This rule applies to women aswel. So many women want a high quality man while they themselves have been living a lifestyle that makes them seem low value while feeling entitled. That's not how it works

[TruthBringer]

@Ryfyle You're speaking to a fighter pilot in training assigned to fly the F-35 soon who has also got a bachelor's degree in university. This goes to show you don't know jack shit about what I can and cannot do. Just because you fail at getting women, doesn't mean Apope is incorrect in the people he speaks of. If you feel spoken to and offended by what he wrote, then he clearly is speaking about you. There is a world of difference between when I was 17 and being 23 now. When I was 17, this take would apply to me since I would spend the majority of my time gaming and doing what's comfortable. That until I turned 18 and actually started doing productive things in my life.

I don't need to be a "try hard" because not only am I almost finished achieving my dream job, but also have no issues finding quality women to get into relationships with as I currently do.

Try harder, mate. Your little shaming tactic here is futile

[TruthBringer]

@Ryfyle I just love how you cannot produce a single valid counter argument and still resort to ad hominems. A dead giveaway of someone who doesn't have the intellectual capacity to do so. Cry me a river, mate. You're literally complainign about a Take you should be taking with a grain of salt. Awhhh 😂

[TruthBringer]

@Ryfyle Oh I'm sorry, you call that a comeback? Wow 😂

[TruthBringer]

@Ryfyle I can smell the envy all the way across the ocean. You shouldn't be scared about me "wasting" your tax dollars because your money doesn't come in my pocket ;) Come back when you have some actual facts to give rather than showing how hurt you are seeing there are people who agree with the very Take that managed to make your pussy bleed 😂

[Ryfyle]

@TruthBringer Then you should take a shower. Not going to bother with the paragraph of boring prattle.

[TruthBringer]

@Ryfyle I did mate. But good to see this Take go over your head lmfao

[bingbongbangbung]

And I'm an attack helicopter that can go Ultra Instinct

[bingbongbangbung]

Yet you also commit many logical fallacies yourself. Pot. Kettle. Black.

[TruthBringer]

@bingbongbangbung Cool story, not sure what that has to do with anything I said. Feel free to elaborate in a correct way, or else stop wasting both our times

[Ryfyle]

@TruthBringer I'm glad to see that you are so eager to reply, But I really got to know. Why the fuck should anybody give a fuck about your alleged Flight School Training? No one owes you jack fuck for the "service" you volunteered for. A good chance next year you will be using that supposed training to JDAM Elementary Schools in Kansas because some one saw a red hat in the general area. Nothing drops panties like a man that murders families in the dead of night. Women owe you some poon because Those "MAGA Terrorists" won't bomb themselves with an expensive plane. You seem like the sort of guy that will happily take whats owed you; and taking it with a warm Sig in your hands only make hotter, right? You put in the hours, and they clearly owe you for the service, and your going to hypothetically take what the owe you. In a restroom at a bar, in a park late at night, at there house, you're going to take what they owe you for your murder service that no one asked you for.

[TruthBringer]

@Ryfyle Oh look, we got a butthurt one here. You should know that the Netherlands isn't so trigger-happy as the Americans. So bombing is something we don't do very often, in the first place. And it seems you missed the memo that I'll be put in the QRA before being sent off to another country. But stay mad, little boy

[Ryfyle]

@TruthBringer I really don't care how you play Pretend Pilot in your countries Novelty Chair Force. Your still living the life of a Risk Free Welfare Queen. All the prestige, and none of the Sacrifice. As An American, I'm so envious of your Privileged and Pampered lifestyle as an Officer.

[TruthBringer]

@Ryfyle Lmfao I just love the envy and inferiority complex oozing out of you, keep it coming 😂

[Ryfyle]

@TruthBringer Fucking where? Explain how you came to that conclusion that I would have an inferiority complex. Are you Cope-posting or simply that dim to not understand obvious sarcasm?

[TruthBringer]

@Ryfyle The fact you felt the need to shit on my profession and are trying to rationalize how "bad" I am with having my "bad" profession goes to show you're actually salty and suffering from an inferiority complex. Because it wouldn't surprise me that you would ever get through selection procedure alone, let alone be chosen to fly one of the most sophisticated fighters even if you seriously tried. Stick to your copium. You seem quite butthurt lmfao

[Apope16]

Thanks for your reply @TruthBringer.

I have offended NOBODY.

What is written is what women have told me and what I've overheard. Its coming from a lot of women not me. Its backed by over 65% of males in America obese or overweight.

[TruthBringer]

@Apope16 It's obvious you have triggered many little snowflakes here. Keep spreading the truth mate!

[Ryfyle]

@TruthBringer here's the Deal, Why should anybody be impressed with your supposed position? Really ponder that for a bit.

[TruthBringer]

@Ryfyle Who said I wanted you to be impressed? Since when do you even matter? Especially since you've proven to be a salty and envious little boy lmfao

[Susjsm]

It's extremely cringe that you set your whole life up to apeal to women. That's just pathetic.

[TruthBringer]

@Susjsm I just noticed that I didn't put my thoughts correctly. So I don't blame you for thinking that. What I actually meant to say is the following:
I have been working hard on my body, education, career, my style, hobbies and knowledge that has helped me be appealing to women without even needing to try at this point.

So no, I'm not doing everything I love for the sake of women. On the contrary actually.

[Ryfyle]

@TruthBringer Incredible back peddling right there. You've been stroking your E-Cock about your alleged Pilot Career for a couple threads. Seriously though, few Women would be legitimately interested in your ceremonial flying career. In fact some might be appalled to be in the proximity of some who gleefully flies an "Amerikkkan made child bomber". All that supposed work for that Panty Damper of a Job. Lmao.

[TruthBringer]

@Ryfyle You're still bitching about my career eh? And yet you're trying to convince others you're not envious. Keep talking mate, you're amusing 😂

[friendzoned4life]

So Who fucked you in the ass?

We are not loosers for gaming or dressing how We want. What you are saying is be an asshole.
Cause you assume u do everything right if you did everything right would have had a woman that stays.

We can dress decent without being it expensive and the salarys you portray as having a decent job are riducoulus. a lot of men don't get that not cause we don't want to but building a career takes time and not every type of career has these kinds of salarys possible.

And I say this as someone at the start of a career where these amounts are able to earn when you get higher up.

The only thing u got right is People should wash themselves enough but why are you assuming that someone that games doesn't

Men Just need to be themselves.
Maybe we have it harder finding a woman but at least we can make them stay and build a family our happiness doesn't depend on having sex with strangers.

So In my case I will call you an asshole for trying to put men down with this take

And I will keep gaming

Trying to build my career but not depend on it to get a woman don't like golddiggers.

I Will. keep dressing how I do no suits for me.

And too my fellow nerds I say don't become this man he will end up even more lonely and depressed than you have experienced

[AdithyaR]

As a fellow gamer, respect! I hate how people automatically assume we have no life besides it and we are always some slobby mess if we game.

[friendzoned4life]

Yeah this is OP is the kind of guy we mean when we say women only want assholes.

I actually was a mess for a while had nothing to do with the gaming.

Been bullied and stuff until suïcidal tougths

Got therapy
Read some books
Found out what was the real. reason why I was still depressed after I learned Karma had played out half of my bullies in jail other half lifes ruined by drugs.

Went to the gym wasn't consistent yet. Got consistent lockdown happened so

fixed my teet, while simultanuosly building a home gym as soon as I started my career. Last month my 2nd contract started.

And Geuss what I still game.
Actually almost had a girlfriend thanks to that fact. But we were not meant to be.

As you are a gamer on this app chances are high you had a similair history.

And I see myself as A winner fixing myself in to how I would like to be.
And it nowhere close to what this guy says we should be. This look of mine now gives me confidence.

I am. now happy with myself now it is Just a matter of time. Girls I pass in the street now look at me like I am a piece of meat and the biggest change was. my confidence

So be yourself and look your absolute best but don't be this guy.

[AdithyaR]

I'm really glad you were able to heal yourself and find your true self. That's exactly what it should, be the best version of yourself, in a way that brings you happiness.
I personally had some issues regarding my academic choices which gave me a lot stress and self doubt. Now I'm in college in a field I enjoy and I'm loving my life. I game, write, cook and do all the things I love and it's really helped my confidence and mental health.

[friendzoned4life]

Yes u understand how it should be.

Actually gaming is what got me on to my career path. When I was in elementary I allready fixed my first PC at home. But like IT People my age or older it started with fixing a VCR.

I Struggled to get a job and one point I Just randomly got the balls to go on LinkedIn and try to piss off everyone that could possibly offer me job with the risk of never getting a job anywhere.

Now I almost have the experience they demand to start a career in the IT field over here.

And fun fact the guy that Said that me doing that Would make me kill off all of my chances is been job hopping as a servicdesk dude while I am a system admin and am in controll of everything with pc's and network over here

[friendzoned4life]

So yes being yourself works better everywhere I don't get payed like an Admin yet but I get the experience on my resumé

[AdithyaR]

Yep gaming helped in my writing too. I like to write fiction, so games with deep lore always fascinate me and give me new ideas for how to make stories interesting.

[friendzoned4life]

See OP is very wrong

[AdithyaR]

Yep, true

[friendzoned4life]

And I really enjoy to see People failing after they told. me what to do. Next job I probably earn at least double of what I earn now 😅

[friendzoned4life]

And the guy told me to differently keeps getting fired or something he has New Jobs a lot

[Apope16]

🤣 not for gaming. For doing it 16 hours per day. If you do it a few hours its cool. Any more than 5 hours in a date and you are a child.

[Apope16]

In a day*

[friendzoned4life]

No, you judging People you don't know for no reason and claiming to be a ladies men is Childish

[AdithyaR]

If a person works a hectic job all week and chooses a day of their weekend to game for a long time, why is he a child? And why the bias for only video games? If he's happy doing it and not hurting anyone else, what's the problem?
If the person were suppose reading books for 16 hours, would you call them a child as well?

[friendzoned4life]

@AdithyaR I think OP never really had a lady before

[BeautyInTheBelfry]

getting there but no.

1. acne cannot be helped. I won't judge a man for that as long as he doesn't judge me for my small breakouts. However I agree most men and women need to fucking shower and use basic hygiene. I dont mean look perfect every day but fucking wash. Wash your balls and cooch. Brush your hair out. Many guys I meet look so unkempt and dont try, they think showing me their wee wee will woo me over when they look nasty and bedroom looks like it stinks.

2. people can have different hobbies but yeah won't lie... fishing isn't my main hobby. Better to find other people into the same hobbies but its still fun to learn new ones.

3. Have to agree, get a life. I am cautious of gamer guys as its going to piss me off if you want to play games all day and have no job and not want to go out and do outdoor activities. Games are fun and would love to play some but I'm not on my game console every day, just weekends when I'm off work.

4. I'm a goth, so won't be that picky on clothing. Wear what makes you happy but do look good in a professional field.

5. its good to have a job but a job is a job... whatever pays the bills and keeps the roof over our head.

6. meh.. gotta agree... I like it when guys read my profile and start a good convo with me instead of it being so bland and dry I end up blocking the poor guy.

7. .. meh... no opinion.

[Bellatris]

"Loose the acne" - Oh sure, because it's that easy. Just click your fingers and it's gone! Having acne isn't - is NOT - a sign of uncleanliness, and I speak from first-hand personal experience here, because I had it when I was a teenager. You, Mr. 'Ladies-Man', are an idiot.
By the way, it's "lose" not "loose".

[Ryfyle]

I get the worse Stress Acne.

[Gravit1]

It's not just the typos his word choice suggest foreign influences. He's probably starting this thread because his advice for women fell flat.

[9Livezzz]

Thank you captain obvious. You just stated basically the main things every girl complains about on television 🤣🤣 It was a good try acting like a "ladies man" I'm sure you probably thought you'd get the ladies after writing this one huh😏 I'll take a wild guess and say it didn't work to well for ya 🤣🤣

[coachTanthony]

Captain Obvious. Ha

[SomeBlondeChick]

ROFL. If he was an actual "ladies man" he wouldn't be on dating sites.

[CasaNorba]

so according to your logic any man who is single is automatically a "loser."

no thanks brother, but I have to reject your lecture on this subject. to be honest you're coming off like a true SIMP at the moment claiming that women are the only things in life that bring happiness, sorry but losing lots of money dating, changing who you are/lifestyle just for pussy is not happiness.

and now the fact that you are self proclaim "ladies man" screams it loud enough

[TruthBringer]

You know he is doing this to anger dudes, right? xD

[BlackCatBone]

Agree
This guy's obsessed about relationships. According to him, no man can be happy without a girlfriend and no girl can be happy without a guy... Just weird...

[Apope16]

Gotta fire these guys up. Lol. But this isn't all dudes. Just directed at some. If you are on your purpose. Taking showers. Dressing well. You are good. But im seeing a lot of lazy, fat, potato chip, 8 hour per day video game junky guys who have no life complaining they can't get a girl. This is what women have told me.

[TruthBringer]

@Apope16 Well said, and you've managed to offend a lot of these lazy snobs in the comments (not referring to Casanorba)

[CasaNorba]

whether he is or not @TruthBringer I actually agree with @BlackCatBone on this one. this guy literally writes these corny ass mytakes about relationships and dating almost on a weekly basis. I really dont undestand how someone can be so obsess with relationships.

if anything if he was successful at his obsession himself he wouldn't be having the time to write such nonsense on a weekly basis. cause he would actually be extremely busy being that so called "lady's man" outside this site

[TruthBringer]

@CasaNorba You made a good point. Calling yourself a ladies man is corny. I think he is doing it on purpose to get people mad lmfao

[apple_jack]

Taking showers, dressing well? Really? That's a given. You ain't giving here any real advice dude.

[apple_jack]

@BlackCatBone I completely agree. I have been reading some of his other mytakes they're equally as hilarious as this one.

[TruthBringer]

@apple_jack Just by you saying this goes to show Apope not only managed to bait you, but also everything I've said went RIGHT OVER your head. Oh my God, this is way too good, please don't ever change 😂

[apple_jack]

Bait me how?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@TruthBringer well if you claim that his only doing this anger guys here, that will only prove my point that the author of this take is basically triggered himself because he has no real reason to trigger anyone unless he is.

[TruthBringer]

@Aiko_E_Lara Hey it's better to ask him directly. I am quite sure he says certain things to trigger people he knows hate when he says he. Which only makes him say it even more. Not sure how that translates to him being "triggered".

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I'm talking about triggered by the fact that he's lacks attention so he's looking for a ways to trigger anyone. You just admitted it for him tho.

[TruthBringer]

@Aiko_E_Lara Sorry mate, I actually didn't admit anything about he himself being triggered. I'm simply saying he gets on the nerves of others for shits and giggles. Doesn't necessarily translate back to him being triggered himself. I'm starting to think you don't even know what "triggered" means.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I'm not saying you're admitting for him being triggered but you're admitting that he's trying to trigger people here so i already explained the how it makes him triggered himself. Of course i know what being triggered means. It's basic living emotional about something but anger to be specific. And like what i said, people who tries for trigger anyone are usually the ones who are angered themselves. Also talk about taking it with a grain of salt, if he's really taking single guys with a grain of salt then he wouldn't really be trying to trigger a anyone.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

So much for the "truthbringer" ironically you even know anything about that

[TruthBringer]

@Aiko_E_Lara Ah you meant it like that, yeah that makes sense. And yes, my name is TruthBringer because I like to bring the truth. From what I've seen from this website, it sure needs much of it ;)

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Which you failed miserably ironically debunked by an ordinary person.

[apple_jack]

He only brings snowflakes not the truth.

❄❄❄❄

[TruthBringer]

@Aiko_E_Lara Just because I understand your perspective, doesn't mean you n"debunked" someone necessarily. Afterall, you just made another assumption on Apope. It may be right, it may not be right. It's still an assumption. But by all means, if you think you "debunked" anyone here, feel free to do so, if it helps you sleep at night 😂

[TruthBringer]

@apple_jack Damn girl, how long are you going to stay mad because you got roasted on my Take? 😂😂

[apple_jack]

@SnowflakeBringer Damn boy how long are you going to suck Apope's dick in the comments? 😂

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@TruthBringer Then just because you admit anything or just say something doesn't mean you're being truthful. You're also making assumption about me making assumptions about Apope ignoring how it explains him being triggered. I guess you don't know the difference between just assumption and educated guess.

[TruthBringer]

@Aiko_E_Lara In the end, we are all making assumptions about everyone. And sure mate, you're making an educated guess, except everyone else. Same thing as I make an educated guess that whomever gets mad at what has been written in this Take has some personal development to do.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@TruthBringer While you admitting that, that proves you're not being truthful at all. Not even close to an educated guess. You make "educated guesses" as to why everyone is triggered you say? Which is also why im making an educated guess about you basically agreeing with a triggered mytake. You're no different to those "triggered" people here.

[TruthBringer]

@Aiko_E_Lara I spoke from a general perspective. But if we are going to call out who is making assumptions and who isn't, you cannot distinguish yourself from the very thing you accuse someone else of doing. Especially since you cannot validate your "educated guess". So in the end, your little "educated guess" remains nothing but an assumption. Twisting it's words in an attempt to make it seem like something more "intelligent" does not change what it actually is. Which is an assumption. Often here on G@G we speak to people and assume things while we may very well be far from the truth. The fact you take my name so literally goes to show you don't take things for a grain of salt. When I say I like to bring people the truth, that means I bring the truth for what I see it to be and if I can, I make sure to show sources and studies that back that which I say depending on the topic. But at least I got the balls to actually say that I can make assumptions and not try to manipulate it in making it seem I don't, while I actually am.

Thanks for validating my words more. And nice try, but you have to come up with a better argument. In the end, you made an assumption and it seems like Apope struck a nerve with his Take. That says a lot about yourself. Hence why next time, learn to actually take things with a grain of salt.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

So did i spoke from a general perspective. You know that word can also be applied to how you assume that the author is not triggered. Also there is a way to backfire your own logic because you just want to keep saying things just because you said so to make you seem more "intelligent" but actually no. And what's wrong with me taking your name so literally? If you're not triggered yourself how about you take it with a grain of salt like what you said. But now you see your like complaining about me taking your name so literally. That's just like how people is complaining about the take which doesn't necessarily have to be triggered if you call yourself someone who really isn't triggered.

And thank you as well for validating my words. Nice try. In the end you're just making assumptions about a lot of people in here. And next time, i hope you learn how to take your own advice

[TruthBringer]

@Aiko_E_Lara In the end, we don’t know if he is triggered or not. But one thing I can make an ‘educated guess’ on aswel. That is reading the responses, I can sense some emotions from certain people which make me believe they got triggered. That “triggeredness” is much harder to spot with Apope from his Take. So using YOUR logic, it will only validate my own initial thought.

“lso there is a way to backfire your own logic because you just want to keep saying things just because you said so to make you seem more "intelligent" but actually no. “ – Says the dude trying to twist his assumptions as “educated guess”, while failing to validate his little “educated guess”. Which ironically just an assumption sugarcoated with other words.

In regards to my name, whether or not you take my name literally, that is your choice and ultimately your own problem. I’m not obligated to act in ways you choose to perceive my name. Sorry mate, gotta disappoint you there. It’s also you who is complaining that I called out people here to be triggered. Hence why you’re sitting here damage controlling with some mental gymnastics for thigns that aren’t even deep, to begin with.

Let me make things a bit easy for you: We are all making assumptions based on our interpretations of what we read. You make an assumption that Apope is triggered, and I make an assumption that there are a bunch of salty dudes in the comments. And now you’re just making me think you’re not only TRIGGERED by this Take alone, but also triggered that I called out dudes who lash out at Apope as triggerd. Not to forget to mention that I thought we ended our little discussion under your own comment section, but somehow you felt compelled to continue it once more here. Which funny enough, you actually validated what I said even more. Come back when you don't give arguments that act as a double edged sword.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And in the end, you also don't know if anyone here is actually triggered or not. I can also make an educated guess about the author as well. Reading the my take, there is also emotions in there. There a lot of flaws and straw man arguments. Also trying for trigger anyone it an emotion and a logical fallacy

Also says the guy who has been saying things just because he said so. You also failed to validate your educated guess which also proved that you're just assuming things.

And because someone actually talking about your name, it is also your choice to take it with a grain of salt or not. I can also say you are complaining about people here disagreeing with the my take complaining while assuming they are triggered which is not even something deep to begin with.

Then if that's the case you are also assuming that people here are triggered. You're also assuming that Apope is not triggered because we are aware you are agreeing with him. Yeah sure you can also assume that i'm triggered well i can also assume you're just triggered with people just making comments on this take which is why you are basically almost everywhere protesting comments here. I'm not even the one who was trying to end things here but you're the one who's trying to run away. Did i even say i was done? No. You're the one who said that so why can't you even take your own words? But i see you're still going to come back i know it. Just because you're done that doesn't mean i have no more points to say. So if you want to eat your words you can do it anytime you want like i care.

[TruthBringer]

@Aiko_E_Lara This is why you take things on this website WITH A GRAIN OF SALT. I never tried to prove my assumptions. I only used your logic which is calling my assumptions an educated guess. And now you’re lecturing me on not proving something. First of all, I’m not the one who started calling my ASSUMPTIONS an educated guess. I simply used your own logic. So now you’ve just self-refuted. So in the end, you’re not making any educated guess. You’re just making assumptions about the author.
Oh I definitely take comments about my name with a grain of salt. I chose it from the start because I know it’s going to piss off certain people. Which was initially a guess on my end and it turned out to be true. So in the end, I actually don’t give a shit if someone gets mad at my name, I actually find it amusing how people can get mad about trivial things.

I've literally already said I was assuming. Thanks for repeating my words, captain obvious. I’ve literally just said in the end, we all make assumptions on this website (from a general perspective). So there is no point in lecturing me about something I’ve already acknowledged 😂 🤦‍♂️

You’re free to assume I’m triggerd. And I’m free to assume you are aswel. Now the question is, will that also trigger you? Because I certainly don’t give a shit if you think I’m triggered. I already had enough amusement on this Take. I stand by with what I say. I actually don’t sugarcoat my true intentions, unlike you.

[TruthBringer]

@Aiko_E_Lara At this point, you’re obviously arguing for the sake of arguing. Hence why you returned to seek more attention. Same thing for little @Apple_jack, it seems like she can’t get enough of my attention. When someone tells you it’s time to agree to disagree, that’s when you actually end it there. But it seems like you missed that memo and let your little ego take the wheel. Hence why you came here to continue arguing. You’re trying to end things? Good, we can simply agree to disagree and you can be on your way. Unless your little ego wants to continue. In that case, feel free to talk. I won't guarantee I will read it.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And this is also why you cannot take the comments here with a grain of salt. If you're not proving any of your assumptions then you're just not being truthful at all. I also just use your logic like making assumptions anyone is triggered. I also use your on logic not taking every comments here with a grain of salt because you're basically everywhere in this post. Also because i'm not the one who is making assumptions about anyone just making assumptions. So there i just simply use the authors and your logic.

Then so did i take the my take with a grain of salt. Also taking your comments with a grain of salt. I also did comment about this might take because i also know the author is pissed off and cannot take single people with a grain of salt which turned out to be true. So in the end, i don't give a shit if you're just being ironic. I just find it amusing.

Then i literally said your assumptions don't prove anything. You can repeat it over and over and i can debunk it over and over. And if you are really acknowledge yourself you wouldn't really stop repeating what you said only to be debunked.

You're also free to us show me we are triggered, i'm also free to assume you are as well. Now the question would be is that going to trigger you? Because i certainly don't give a shit if you think i'm triggered also because i know it's true that i'm not triggered. I don't sugar coat anything un like you.

You don't think you're just arguing for the sake of arguing for whatever reason? Because ironically you are just arguing for the sake of arguing. So how many times are you going to say you're going to end it but still going to come back anyway? Do you even know what you're saying?

[apple_jack]

Here's my educated guess: Everyone here is triggered af.

Take it with a grain of salt! 😂

[apple_jack]

How is it going SnowflakeBringer? Shamed any woman today eh? 😄

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@apple_jack Then that would include you. Just saying

[apple_jack]

@Aiko_E_Lara and?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@apple_jack Nothing im just saying

[apple_jack]

@Aiko_E_Lara I know but it was a joke if you haven't noticed. 😃

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I know but i'm not asking. Still saying

[Aiko_E_Lara]

But yeah if it's really a joke, i dont see it. Nothing personal i know

[apple_jack]

@Aiko_E_Lara I was just reflecting to your argument with "truth"bringer. I am sorry you didn't get it. 🤷‍♀️

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And i was just saying. Sorry you didn't get it

[apple_jack]

@Aiko_E_Lara I said everyone. I didn't say everyone except me. So you were stating the obvious. But I have no idea why are you going on about this. It was a joke.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@apple_jack You didn't say everyone including you either. So what if it's obvious? I'm also not saying you're not joking and it's obvious

[apple_jack]

@Aiko_E_Lara What's your problem dude? I don't get it. 😃

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@apple_jack Nothing. Im just saying and you shouldn't have a problem with it

[apple_jack]

@Aiko_E_Lara With what? 😃

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I can also ask you the same thing. What problem are you talking about here?

[Apope16]

@apple_jack A LOT OF GUYS don't know how to dress. A LOT OF DUDES.

A lot of guys smell bad too.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Apope16 in your assumption. I'm going to be realistic that you have never met most men in the world. Do you really go outside and sniff every guys you see to give yourself a confirmation?

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

YOU POST IS FULL OF SHIT!! If women are asking you for advice clearly they are going to the wrong source. You are so fucking fat off a map couldn't get you back to reality.

You dis guys playing video games all the time but what about the girls you take out to dinner and have their phones glued to their face throughout the entire dinner? Comments on that? Well, nevermind I wouldn't believe the bullshit that spews from your pie eating hole.

You tell men to go get a hobby and then call them small dicked because they are holding a fish which fishing is a hobby you moron. My last girlfriend loved to fish and we loved spending time on the lake all day fishing. She loved buying her own fishing equipment and guess what. She was a gamer as well. You really have no clue what the hell you are talking about.

You don't know shit about this particular topic so please jump back on your slow pony and ride back into the rubber forest you half witted waste of space.

[Apope16]

This is what women have told me. Im repeating why they have dumped guys or said no. I have no issue with video bv games.🤷🏾‍♂️

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

Most of your negative feedback is from the ladies. Seems like a lot of people hate your takes on subjects that you clearly have no idea what you are talking about. Do everyone a favor and don't make another take.

[Dontaaa]

I try to like and understand you, but you make it increasingly hard to do so.

A man isn't a loser just because he's single, you base your entire existence on this type of shit don't you?
Tch... how ridiculous.

@NathanDavis was right, you are a joke.

[TruthBringer]

Of course a man is not a loser if he is single. That is very correct. I don't think he called anyone who is single a loser. Many of those who are single HAPPEN TO BE losers. there is a difference.

[Dontaaa]

@TruthBringer if that's what he meant then he should've clarified it, that's what happens when you don't explain yourself clear enough.

You leave room for people to assume what you mean when you're not clear and concise with your words, that's interpersonal communication 101.

There is a difference, but he made NO effort to show which difference that he made.

That's not my fault, that's his.

He's a fucking influencer, he needs to to better, first he uses statistics without showing the sources and now he says shit that isn't clear for his readers to understand.

This dude is a fucking joke, this is the last time I'm ever commenting on this clowns posts.

[Dontaaa]

I'm going to hold that dickhead to a higher standard because he has an influencer title, we have enough "influencers" spreading misinformation as it is.

[apple_jack]

As you should. Well said! 🙌

[TruthBringer]

Yeah G@G has a stupid way of giving people "influencer" status when they clearly are breaking rules themselves. And I have met many of them outside of Apope. The whole influencer title thing is flawed

[AzzaBlue]

@TruthBringer Yeah I've notice that too. If I GAG ever makes me an "influencer" than we should all be afraid. VERY AFRAID!!!

[TruthBringer]

@AzzaBlue I wouldn't mind if you happen to be one, can't speak for others though haha

[AzzaBlue]

@TruthBringer Thanks. Maybe one day, when I am not such a dumb shit that can't write a single message without spelling or grammatical errors.

[TruthBringer]

@AzzaBlue Hey mate, don't let that hold you back from speaking your voice. You can always use an online Grammar checker.

[CuriousJC]

First of all, there's nothing wrong with being a loser I've been losing most of my life and it doesn't bother me anymore. Also, is extremely extremely extremely extremely hard to find a decent woman that's not going to betray you. It's impossible to find decent love, because it seems everybody have a shady past about their previous boyfriends and girlfriends and they think it's going to happen with the next one and the next one. Also there's no real definition of true love, I keep telling people if you want to find real true love you're going to have to find someone who's never been in love in the first place or go to a different dimension and fall in love with the male or female version of yourself.

[Nikola321]

1. Acnes have nothing to do w hygiene, but I do agree that men shouldn't be stinky and expect girls to fall for them, they should def work on that!
2. I agree, doing some hobby or going to some training where u'll meet a girl and then get to know each other etc. is what you should do if you want a long-lasting relationship w a non-hooker.
3. Absolutely agree.
4. I don't agree, not so many women look at fashion. Though a guy should def make sure his clothes are at least clean.
5. It doesn't really matter how much money do you make, as long as it's enough for house, food and at least some money so you can buy smth for yourself or your loved ones.
6. Yes, just like w ur friends, you should have smth to talk about w a girl.
7. I don't know about that, for grown up men that applies I guess. Smn my age can't have his appartement/house.

[purplepoppy]

I visited a tailor with my father that had a great sign up "do not dress like a child". It's so true, a guy dressed like 12 year-old is such a turn off.

[Ryfyle]

Who the fuck goes to a Tailor? Holy shit your the Bluest Blood on GaG.

[friendzoned4life]

@Ryfyle she must come from a Richer family or at least a fam that pretends to be.

[TruthBringer]

@friendzoned4life Gotta love the inferiority complex in you. All because people manage to afford tailors, you start throwing shit at them. Go back to playing games 16+ hours as you've admitted to. Adult stuff isn't your cup of tea.

[purplepoppy]

Tailors aren't that expensive and it's worth using one to get a suit that fits rather than a off the peg supermarket one.

[ChrisMaster69]

@purplepoppy must be an American thing, I’ve used a tailor for years.

[friendzoned4life]

Suits ar for lawyers and douchebags nothing else.

[TruthBringer]

@friendzoned4life Says the loser who sits at home playing games all day

[TruthBringer]

@purplepoppy I agree. Keep spreading the truth. Tailors aren't so expensive and one of the best investments I've made was get a suit custom made

[Goatmeal]

Personally, I'm not gonna dress like every fucking contestant of The Bachelor ever, just to get in your pants. Women want men to dress like the guys on the covers of shitty romance novels. It's so fucking tacky.

[SomeBlondeChick]

You know something @Apope16 I also wonder if you're actually writing for the people of GAG or motivational talks for yourself to do something with your life & end up with a decent woman. A pep talk. You can do it apope, you can do it. Go, go, go apope.

I mean this gibberish is all common sense - except the money as if you had to make 100,000/year everyone who wouldn't would never have a wife & a family - to such extent it actually doesn't have to be said.

[Nazgol]

Right?

[MickHardin]

You "losers"out there, think about this.
If you get a girlfriend, you won't be able to play video games anymore, which you are totally in to, by the way.
You won't be able to wear the clothes you find very comfortable anymore, and you'll spend money on clothes you don't like.
She'll make you shave and cut your hair that took you years to grow.
She'll bug you to get a useless job at Taco Bell so you can spend it all on her.
No more beer chugging with your buddies.
And in the end you'll still end up alone, but you'll be broke and depressed because she dumped you.

[CallmeTheKnight]

It's quite clear to me that you have a strong opinion and I respect it, but let's step into reality. If you're a ladies man, you would know the men you are talking about have very little chance of getting women interested. You can only call out these weak mean, because what else say in their defense... Nothing.. it's too easy. You can't call out a high Value man or a man on his purpose because they don't entertain women the way you do.
As far as these women you talk to, you should question them on their choices of men.

[Anonymous]

This post is cringe

I feel that I have a bigger say to this post in particular because I've known a few players by chance because we were neighbors & classmates

From the ones I met in particular (4 of them)

I was talker, stronger, faster in much better shape (I was competeing in track & field) But they had much more game & were facially more attractiveThe moral of this story is how neither me nor the 4 players I've met bested each other I beat them in height, body composition & athletics but they beat me in the superficial world of attractiveness You give & you take

[Apope16]

This post is apparently commentary that has nothing to do with the substance of what is written. Duly noted.

[Cathy7734]

Not everybody needs to be in a relationship. That doesn't make you a "loser."
One can be just as happy, if not happier, being single than in a relationship.

[Twinrova]

No, generally people are happier in relationships than vice-versa.

[Cathy7734]

@Twinrova
Maybe in the past, this is true. But in today's world, everyone is so selfish and toxic that it takes too much work to be in a one-sided relationship. There's a reason the divorce rate is so high.

[Twinrova]

I think you are misunderstanding: it doesn't matter what your reasoning is, if the premise is literally false to begin with. It is a statistical fact, that people who are in relationships are, on average, happier than those who are not.

[Cathy7734]

@Twinrova
I realize there are articles that claim people in relationships are happier than single people. But there are articles that question this.

Also, Abraham Lincoln said, "Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be." It doesn't matter if one is single or in a relationship.

[Twinrova]

@paxayep Exactly @Cathy7734 this guy gets it.

[TruthBringer]

@Twinrova Well said mate! Even though I personally encourage those who remain single to find happiness in their solidarity, there is a major difference between being single and finding a genuinely good person to spend time and creating memories with.

[Susjsm]

@Twinrova and wtf do you think averages matter here? They don't. A shit tone of people are happier to be free and fuck whoever they want. Not everyone needs an annoying partner.

[Susjsm]

@TruthBringer I prefer to spent time with friends. That's typically better then one girl. You can have sex with all kinds of girls.

[TruthBringer]

@Susjsm IF you're in that lifestyle, all power to you. Plenty of people who are happier getting with a single person who they can actually build something with. But if you cannot find that good person, and only manage to get stuck with annoying ones, then that is when being single is a better choice yes. Overall for the general public: Having one good partner > being single.

[WalkingBassist]

Exactly my dear!!!

[NathanDavis]

Apope, the supposed-to-be Alpha High Quality Man... that can't keep a woman by his side and continues to be a serial dater...

you're such a joke, and a really bad one... lol.

[Imcmullan]

I'm so curious, who gave you the title of "ladies man"? Where do u get these ridiculous ideas from about everything that seems to come put of your post? You must have the best hype crew in the world bc u seem to be so confident about the stuff you post..🤣🤣🤣 quien escribe esta mierda?

[Mark83]

It's a typo. It's supposed to say "self-proclaimed ladies man".

[Imcmullan]

Hahaha clearly!