Search Results: how to read a shy guy

How will a guy act around a girl he likes but who he thinks is "out of his league"?

I invited this guy to hang out sometime. He did not say no explicitly but he did pretty much turn me down. I won't get into a description of his behavior, but I'll just simply say that for quite a while now he has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am very sad :( do I have a chance with this guy? How do I make him see me as more than a friend?

I had a crush on my friend's bro for 2 years or so. I thought he liked me at the begining, but there were no clear signals from either of us. I actually didn't like him at the begining, but thought he liked me, so I was...

adriloser

Xper 5 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

Do women like silent confidence?

There's a saying that confidence is silent, insecurity is loud. That being said, I'm generally a silent loner who enjoys wearing gothic fashion. Due to my quietness and constantly acting alone, it is impossible to...

chc0009

Yoda Age: 35

Guys, I like a guy in my AP?

So me and this guy have AP together. he's so cute, and really shy. Weve worked on group projects together as partners and i think i might like him. His intellectuality is incredibly attractive. How he responds to certain...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I like this guy in my class. How do I get him to talk to me?

I just started college in September. The first day, this really hot guy came in and sat in front of me. I was attracted to him right away. I was sitting with my friend I met at orientation. After he sat down in front of...

SophieK23

Xper 4 Age: 30

Relationships

Guys, Does he realize that I like him?

So I've had a crush on this guy for about 4 years and I'm a extremely shy person. Every time I tried to talk to him my brain would basically shut off and I'd feel very awkward then quickly stop talking to avoid...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys really always initiate if they truly like a girl?

I have this guy acquaintance. We flirted a bit and then made out once. Then he started snap chatting me all the time. I know sometimes I am not the greatest at showing a guy that I am interested and I get told I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I only get approached by creepy guys?

I am, objectively speaking, an attractive young woman. However, I am incredibly shy. I am doing my best to work past that, but in the mean time, I am only approached by creepy guys. Now, I'm not exaggerating when I say...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is there a reason or am I reading into it too much?

Ok so there's a guy I like who I've tried dating in the past but I was soo introverted and shy it didn't work out romantically. We've been in relationships since but after wishing him a happy bday we started talking...

LifeIsStrange

Xper 5 Age: 32

Society & Politics

Girls and Guys: We Really Aren't That Different

I have a surprise for you, we aren't really from Venus and Mars. I know: WOW! I have read a lot of these weird arguments and myTakes. They are about what girls and guys do differently , who is more shallow, who should...

whyisitso

Editor Age: 31

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Guys don't seem to want to approach me. What should I do?

I know I'm not the skinniest or prettiest in the world and I try to be friendly as much as I can, but nothing seems to work. I read that guys can read signals from you and I'm worried I come off as too timid and shy. I...

LucyRose

Xper 4 Age: 30

Relationships

Guys, How would you feel if you were him?

2 weeks ago my 10th grader crush and I shared our first kiss, after there was so much drama with his friends all because they never liked me and only disapproved. They were saying all these lies and a bunch of crap about...

theyoungandcluelezz

Xper 2 Age: 24

How to Avoid Bad Women: What Every Man NEEDS to Know!

There are bad women in the world. Plain and simple. While I have done a fair share of growing up this past month after recent events , I have also learned that women cannot be placed up on a pedestal anymore. Make no...

JRICHARDS1996

Editor Age: 30

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What does it mean when I add a guy on sc and he knows who it is who added who but says he actually doesn't?

Okay so I added a guy ( he's shy and he's liked me for almost 3yrs now) I like on snapchat and a couple hours later he added me back. But before I added him I told my friend that she should tell him that he should add me...

Glili

Xper 4 Age: 25

Other

How Others Crushed My Self-Confidence, and How I'm Rebuilding It

All of my life I've been the typical shy gamer dude. I'm currently 21 years old and I didn't get out a lot (even though I had / still have a great social circle). I've always been kind of a stay-at-home kinda guy. Now,...

HenkTheTank

Xper 5 Age: 30

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Break Up & Divorce

He has started to completely ignore me after friends with benefits ended? Please help?

So my friends with benefits has completely blanked me for two days. We dated years ago briefly but we had no feelings going into this. After a few weeks he told me he liked me, a week later I told him, soon after he said...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my crush interested or not?

I met this guy at college and instantly liked him. We had small talks here and there and I learned he had a girlfriend so I just tagged him as an acquaintance. We both since have graduated and recently he added me on...

KarlaMariaM

Xper 4 Age: 31

Does my coworker like me? I get the feeling that he does but he doesn't show all the signs. Maybe he's just a joker with everyone?

There's this guy I work with and yesterday at work, he was teasing me about something and as a joke, I told him I would punch him in the face. Then he said "do it" and I said something about how I'm not strong enough and...

Anonymous

(25-29)