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If you had to chose between these two guys who would you chose?

Guy #1 The Recent Ex :
Pros:
He's seen me at rock bottom and stuck around (I had a psychotic break and he pushed me through it)
Five years older and has more life experience and helps figure out things like taxes and mortgages w me
Is okay with a hangout being me napping at him place after night shift
Same interests
No topic of conversation is off limits
There's two years of history
The sex is 12/10
He's willing to fight for me
Considers me the most important person in his life
Makes me laugh

Negatives:
His communication skills go out the window when he's stressed
He can be very self centred
Has a habit of being flaky
Depression can put him through months of feeling disconnected from the world

Guy #2 The Rebound w Potential
Pros:
Super ambitious
good job
Makes me try new things
Healthy lifestyle
has his shit together
Always wants to spend time together
Family and friends know him
Wants a serious relationship
Makes me laugh
Really good people skills, I could take him as a date anywhere
Loves to show me off

Negatives:
Moving way too fast emotionally
Slightly clingy
Always on the move not okay w just chilling in quiet
I don't know him that well yet
Couple kinks in bed that make me uncomfortable
Has an illness that may cut his life short
Not willing to talk about issues in life, almost too positive

I am currently single until I figure out what I want to do but I'm stuck between two amazing guys and I seriously am so confused rn

I knew a rich guy I ended up cutting contact with.

When I first met him I didn't know he was rich or came from a well off family. It made us divided.

First of all, when I first started talking to him he called me a gold digger and I was really confused. He started talking about his expensive clothes or whatever. I didn't understand anything he was saying. Basically, he called me a gold digger and told me he'd never marry me.

Secondly, he had lots of other rich friends who were jerks. All his female friends were models with blonde hair and blue eyes. They were into things like makeup and hair. I'd make a horrible trophy wife. I hate makeup and I don't care for fancy hairstyles.

Third of all, him and his friends moved too fast for me and did things I'd feel uncomfortable doing and would refuse. They partied a lot, did drugs and drink. They also started getting in my personal beliefs and I didn't like that.

I ended up ignoring him and cutting him off. I'm a very simple girl. I couldn't be anyone's trophy wife and I don't care for trendy mainstream things. I also not into drugs, drinking and partying. While I don't think I'm ugly, I don't think I'd have a very successful modeling career. Men don't drool over my entire existence and I don't care. He'd always tell me he could get a hotter Instagram baddie and would try to make fun of me for not wanting to do anything with him.

He was a jerk. The end.