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I have a reason behind asking this question. I consider myself to be cute at most, however, people in my life have pointed that I’m attractive or whatever other term would fit in that category. Yes, beauty is subjective, however all the pretty girls I’ve met were either taken or had suitors. I am literally always single. Yes, I’m very introverted and don’t go out often, but I mean I work and when I was in school I never got much attention. I was overlooked due to being heavier I presume. Now that I am a few clothing sizes smaller, I still don’t get much attention. People either are interested as to why I’m single or seem kind of shocked/feel sorry for me. I can’t speak for them lol. Anyway, is there a good chance that I’m not pretty since I’m invisible to men? I’ve only been approached by weird and unattractive men.

I'm sure a lot of you heard of the dating app called Bumble. There's also a BFF (friends) option, where girls can meet girls and become friends.

The BFF option is the one I used. I started talking to this girl "Ashley." We learned that we shared a lot of the same interests and got along really well. Two months later, we decided to meet at a local restaurant for the first time. (This is also the last time I've seen her).

Right before we were supposed to meet, Ashley and her boyfriend broke up. It was immediately after we met, things started getting really messy with Ashley and her boyfriend, to the point the court is involved.

I feel like Ashley loves drama and she's purposely adding fuel to the fire when it doesn't have to be. It feels like she's asking for more trouble.

At the same time, I can't really judge or assume what's really going on because I only know her side of the story. Anyways... the drama is ongoing and it's annoying and I don't want to be involved.

I don't know if I came into her life at the wrong time, or what. But here's the question... which one is best?