Search Results: self esteem and confidence

Personality or Appearance: What Really Matters?

Hello all! I wanted to address a recent poll I posted anonymously, which dealt with the controversial battle of personality versus appearance. I provided two girls, one (Girl A) with a thin "perfect" body with few...

LittleFinch

Xper 5 Age: 28

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Break Up & Divorce

Will I ever be able to move on from my ex?

Long story short, I met a girl, she became my first girlfriend, I fell madly in love with her, and 10 months into the relationship, she cheated on me and then jumped into a new relationship overnight. For the first week...

LeonNova

Xper 5 Age: 30

The 40 Percent Man, And Some Hard Truths About Dating

^ The 20%, or the 40% man as I hope to demonstrate What is the 80/20 theory of dating, or the theory about the 20% man? Cited from the 'examiner' webpage : Have you ever visited a popular nightclub in a major city, and...

the_rake

Editor Age: 34

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How Do I Look?

Girls, Am I unattractive (see profile pic)?

I'm 22, I never approach girls because I'm afraid of rejection. I used to be pretty ugly and skinny back in middle school and high school and got rejected for prom by 2 different girls, so I kind of just stopped...

Anonymous

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Does self esteem play a major role in the relationship?

No matter how far or skinny, a person with low self esteem and low confidence (speaking from experience) can never see themselves as worthy. They can only see the bad, rarely if ever believes compliments. With that said,...

Lindajackie

Xper 5 Age: 27

No matter how far or skinny, a person with low self esteem and low confidence (speaking from experience) can never see themselves as worthy. They can only see the bad, rarely if ever

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Any books or sites that help with self esteem and confidence?

I've been working and spending my time off at home or doing my own hobbies. Which tend to be without friends. I'm starting to feel out of touch socially and romantically. Which fills me with a lot of self doubt. What are...

tenchu11

Explorer Age: 38

Sexy and Confident Women Are NOT "Sluts" or "Tramps"

I'm really sick of this. Since when did we start shaming women for being sexy and confident? How is a woman who holds her head high and wears a nice dress a slut, just because she's showing her legs? I thought we were all...

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Xper 5 Age: 44

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Intelligence and relationships?

Anywhere you look, you will come across people saying they want an intelligent and confident partner. However, intelligence is a big factor that determines one's general confidence, it can either have a positive or...

DanHart

Explorer Age: 30

Radical Self Love and Why Self-Image is Critical, With Guest Gala Darling

Is the idea of self-love increasingly foreign to you? Do you feel as if you can't get excited about anything, can't get motivated to do anything, and can't seem to look yourself in the mirror? In short, would you say...

Fathoms77

Editor Age: 47

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What to do when you have low self esteem?

Honestly, I'm a train wreck. No matter what I do, I never feel like I'm good enough. Not only am I short, but I used to be very overweight. I thought that once I lost the weight I would feel better about myself, but here...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I want to know what true confidence is like?

I have confidence issues, in a good day when I achieve something or fix something I feel my confidence raises, most of the time my confidence is ok but I wish I can Say that I'm truly confident. my self esteem is not...

Keepcalm89

Xper 6 Age: 41

Love him but should we stay together long term? (health and money problems and my self esteem)?

I love my boyfriend of over a year but there are some problems in the background that make me doubt how things will work out I the future and if we should stay together. Has talked lots about other girls and mutual...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why is everyone on this website so insecure? If you aren't in that category, then why not?

Every other question seems to be like... does he/she like me? How can I win him/her back? He/she cheated on me, what do I do now? Blah blah blah. It's all very depressing. I'm looking for the other guys and girls who...

Anonymous

(36-45)

There's No Need to Freaking Brag or Complain About Being Attractive

So I'm sorry but this might turn into a little rant. Recently, there was a take I skimmed through about how being good looking wasn't "all it's cracked up to be", and I took away from it that he was 1. complaining and 2....

SweetHomicidalQueen

Editor Age: 27

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Dating

Is it ridiculous for me to prepare for a life of being single?

I truly believe I will meet someone but I just want to be mentally and emotionally prepared incase I don't. I just can't imagine the person I'd be with or the kind of person who would be with me. Right now I lack the self...

Rloco

Explorer Age: 34

10 Tips on Faking it 'Til You Make It

1. Stand tall. Body language is really important in projecting confidence. So put your shoulders back, and keep your head up! 2. Smile. People who smile win people over, plain and simple. Smiling makes you feel good, and...

Luci92

Editor Age: 27

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Ladies, It's Okay to Reject Me: My Self-Image Won't Shatter If You Do

She looked at me with sad, anxious eyes. It was as if she'd just told me I'd be dead in a week. It was the face of someone breaking catastrophic news to a fellow human, and terrified how he might react. And all she said...

Fathoms77

Editor Age: 47

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Women's Day

Okay, We Need to Stop Telling Women They Wear Too Much Makeup

Let’s just get one thing out of the way: I have nothing against women who choose not to wear makeup. What’s included in your “getting ready routine” is your business. Pick up a mascara wand, or don’t pick up a mascara...

sparkly-crystal

Editor Age: 27

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