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I currently got closer to this guy at work. We spend about a week together aboard for work. During that we hangout together in a group (because we couldn't get ride of the other people who were also traveling with us "I wanted to go do some shopping with you, but couldn't really get away from them" - them being his bosses). One night in the restaurant we sat next to each other and he passed his arm around me and touched my shoulder (while telling a story to the group), he would lean towards me and would follow my movements as if i was laying back he would lay back too. Other night we went to the hotel bar and i sat a bit away from him (but facing him) and I was just "pretending" to pay attention to something else and suddenly he was looking at me, waved and smiled. He would often stare at me, and when i looked back, he would look away and back again. I asked him a favor, which he promptly did. I tried to figure out if he had a girlfriend/wife by saying some stuff like "ok if you need to call you wife there is a cheap way of doing it..." and he never said anything until we became friends on facebook and before that happened he said "look there is something about me i haven't told you... i dont like labels ect". He has been in a straight relationship with a girl for 6yrs and got a son. Then got into a relationship (3yrs) with a guy who he recently bought an house with. We talk regularly over chat (because I have been aboard for a long time) and usually its me who starts the convo. He always replies with loads of emotion icons. Then I spend almost 2/3 weeks without saying much, and he actually came back to me asking about where I was. I know he likes his boyfriend a lot... although sometimes he looks a bit unhappy and it happens I currently live with my boyfriend as well... I got a massive crush on this guy but I reckon that maybe i should just get over it and be good friends with him rather than thinking about anything else? What do you think he feels about me?

My boyfriend's friends keep saying he's lucky as hell he has me, but he doesn't think so. I'm curious what you guys think.

-Short / very petite
-Dresses cute (Thigh highs and neck ribbons are a staple)
-Cancels our own plans so you can have a guy's night
-Makes baked treat snack boxes for guy's night
-Plans fun dates, even after three years (Go karting, paintball, shooting range, ect) out of own pocket
-Pays for pretty much every date, actually
-Pays attention to everything you like, so you can have a happy birthday/christmas/whatever presents
-Likes watching anime/playing JRPGs
-Does oral 90% of the time when asked
-Doesn't mind cleaning up after you / you come home to a clean house with laundry done
-Makes lunch/dinner and drop it off for you every weekend while doing overtime/working
-Only gets a little disapointed for cancelled dates, doesn't actually yell
-Can't actually yell, my voice is too quiet
-I haven't gotten a birthday present in two years and don't mind
-Baking, baking, baking. Always cookies and cupcakes.
-On special days, breakfast in bed
-Adventures are fun!