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Don’t confuse good boy with doormat or the stereotypical “nice guy”.

I don’t drink or smoke. I won’t call a girl “my bitch” and I’m not “hard”. I’m a hardworking man, finishing up school to become a news reporter. Working on buying my first home, published two books, workout 4-6 times a week and I would consider myself pretty successful for my age. I try to travel to different countries yearly, I’m very adventurous and ambitious. I’m not OVERLy macho. I’m aggressive and loud when I need to be like in bed or when I’m standing up for myself. I know how to have fun I just don’t drink, smoke or do things that can end me up in prison. Anything else is fair game like parties, trips, etc.

I’m in my mid-20s. My age on here isn’t accurate. It’s like that because my birth year on Facebook is off by 100+ years because I don’t tell people my age. Leaves a little mystery.

I’m pretty level headed and treat everyone with respect until they’ve lost it. But I don’t take anyone’s bs and don’t let people walk over me, love interests included. I’ve never had problems getting dates but I usually end up with “goodie goodies.” Girls who are “too nice” don’t know how to let their hair down and have fun. I’ve been wanting to change it up.

Lately I’ve found myself drawn to girls with a little sass and edge. Not anyone who’d get me in trouble but those girls who know they’ve got it going on, know how to have fun but still have their shit together. I’m wondering if girls like that would go for guys like me, like opposites attracting. Is it worth the trouble to find out?