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Do you have MORE male or female friends?

I get along with both genders, but slightly more with men, than women. I keep a lot of people 'at arms length' because they seem 2 faced or suspicious or create drama, so im friendly with them, but keep conversations short, so that they can't get too close to me.

Its kinda like 55% male friends, 45% female.

I like how chill some guys are and i have a lot in common with some of them, e. g. same sense of humour.
But i do have some nice girls who im friends with as well.

HOWEVER, im careful with who i become close friends with / talk to on a regular basis, cos I've realised that a lot of people want to 'use' people & have ulterior motives.

Also, i'm very aware of guys who try to be "friends" with me, or are overly-friendly, just cos they want sex (gross!).

But generally, i find some girls untrustworthy, cos in the past, whenever i had female bestfriends, they always compared themselves to me, or were worried that their boyfriend fancies me, so they ended up gossiping about me, tried to ruin things for me, and acted VERY insecure around me!

It always boggles my mind how some girls are so naive to how guys think. For example, some can’t seem to understand as to how or why they can be “used” for sex or what guys look for in a girl.

It’s honestly pretty simple to me. Guys look for girls that are pretty, smart, kind, and overall good human beings. They don’t look for the girl with the biggest breasts or the biggest butt. They look for the girl with the biggest heart, that will give them the attention and love they deserve.

Girls, do you feel you understand how a guy thinks? Guys, do you feel like you’re understood by girls?