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I really do feel like I am cursed with interpersonal relationships. I do not have any friends, I have surely been wronged & never had an actual relationship. I feel like most women get attention from guys, they don’t even have to do anything to show interest. They just go about their day & love/potential suitors find them. I have tried the dating apps & have more negative than positive experiences. Hence, I have to use dating apps because of my inability to have a social life & get approached by a decent guy in person. I have tried the paid & free apps. I must say, paid does not necessarily mean any better in my life. When I have spoken to guys on the free app, I get noticed by the wrong ones. The ones I don’t find attractive always show interest & when I do get noticed by the good looking ones, they’re not the nicest. I feel like I’m cursed, I’m told I’m attractive. So you’d think I would have them wrapped around my finger but clearly not the case. I just don’t have the confidence to approach someone & I don’t think I should need to, considering most women don’t have to approach men.

Is the issue me or are men just this trashy?