Search Results: leaving a relationship

Weird if I talk to him?

Long story short. I have one colleague that I think is cool, a male colleague. The only times we speak we usually speak about work only but last week we chatted about vacation and he was the one that changed subject...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it a good time to reach out to my boyfriend after being on a break for a month?

So my boyfriend and I have been on a break for the past month and a bit. It was something we both agreed on because I was dealing with some serious mental health issues and the same was true for him to an extent. We have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationship bully?

Question-able so what is considered bully? Example! Every time my girlfriend and I are out with her family or friends. She always talks about how stupid I am, calls me a dumbass. Tells everyone how unwanting I am...

foundational23

Xper 3 Age: 34

Dating

Should I call him when I come back?

I am in a newly formed relationship. We went out for 9-10 dates and decided to be together. We weren't communicating much from the start, a call at the end of the day or text messages when we arrange dates. We both went...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What are his intentions?

So, I met this guy, and we've been hanging out. It's going really well, but I want to get an idea of what this guy's intentions are. When we first met, he really emphasized how he was trying to find "the" girl / a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He made a move on me, but he's leaving in a few days, should I forget him?

So this guy I have been talking to for a few months made a move on me recently. It caught me off guard because I didn't see it coming. Especially since he told me that he hasn't seen a girl in over a year on purpose. But...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I move forward?

It's been 2 years since my ex left me. We were engaged and I am still having a hard time moving on from a nearly 4 year relationship. He was able to move on easily even though he said he would always love me which is hard...

HopefulSign

Xper 4 Age: 51

Ex boyfriend told me he had a rebound, which made his pain worse?

Mu ex contacted me some days ago, told me he got into a rebound relationship but it made him feel worse (more in pain) though he was the one leaving me, why? If he left me, why is he in pain, or feeling bad? Doesn't make...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ex boyfriend saying he partly regrets breaking up?

So, well, he popped up after a month or so after the breakup. Yeah. And started saying how much in pain he was. I asked him why he was in pain if he was the one who left me. And he was like, well, it was the correct...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think we'll get back together?

So recently I've gotten into a relationship with a really amazing guy. Granted it was my first relationship but it sucks knowing we have broken up because I'll be leaving for college. There was a mutual agreement about...

shxe20

Xper 3 Age: 24

Did he want to get back together but gave up?

My ex and I were together for 4 years. He was my first boyfriend. What him and I had was truly special but we were both young and struggled with things within ourselves. I had no thought of leaving him until he told me he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend’s somewhat “ex” is still around in his life, what would you do in this situation?

Long story short , my current boyfriend was in a talking stage for two months with a girl he grew up with but they didn’t workout because their families are very close, meaning that she’s still around in his life. This...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My ex wanted to be friends after not speaking for years, now he doesn’t talk to me at all again, why?

My ex and I were together for 4 years. I wish I can go in detail on the relationship but we had a very special relationship and he was my first boyfriend. I was there for him when he didn’t even have a car and supported...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I doing right to stay out of their relationship?

My cousin boyfriend told me and my husband that he had someone else. While acknowledging that we don’t judge others in life, he decided to express his feelings about the relationship along with telling us what has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex wanted to be friends after years of not speaking, but after we became friends he instantly stopped speaking to me, why?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why are so many black men in western society abusive towards black women and leaving them on their own to parent? How’d this get to be a problem?

This is not a generalization of mine based on anectodal evidence. Single motherhood is a significant problem within America’s black community. Not to mention domestic violence victims disproportionately tend to...

White_Boy_506

Xper 5 Age: 26

Blaming myself for geting left for someone else?

How do I stop blaming myself for my ex-girlfriend cheating on me and leaving me for someone else. I know there I are things I could have done better in the relationship, but until the end I was still fighting to fix and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

I ended up on a "date" with a guy I liked 5 years, is there any hope for this situation?

Basically, I got asked on a date by a guy I met 5 years ago. Nothing happened we just talked back then. And he can't remember now. But I can because he was the first guy I spoke to in a new city. Anyhow we ended up...

Chacharico

Xper 4 Age: 38