Uhm. The plan of action you have described here seems really well-thought and sensible, so I'd say to go ahead. Since he's got someone in his family dealing with cancer, I'd advise to reapproach him as someone who can listen to him and support him in this difficult period, and not as an on-and-off girlfriend.
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Dont arrange anything. If he's interested in starting completely over like you were saying, he will obviously contact you if he's hopeful. Realistically, why would he come back to your mental health issues? How does a month away fix your mental health? You believe you're fit for a do over relationship with him in your current state, thats selfish. You should get a therapist and do the work you need for your well being
I think you need to consider moving on, telling him you don’t want to be with him. This doesn’t sound like commitment or a real relationship. Real relationships , you stick through your issues and their issues and get through it together. You are sugar coating your need of not wanting to be with him and it’s selfish. He is not a back burner person for when you have made up your mind.
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Maybe try this.
I doubt either of us are ready to pick up where we left off yet, but I would really like to meet up for a coffee, just to talk over how we both are. Would you be up for that?Breaks are proof yiu cannot handle a committed relationship. Terminate the relationship permanently and only getca new one when your issues are worked out.
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