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My boyfriend and I have been together 8 years. We recently went through a one week “break” initiated by me. I came back and told him I loved him no matter what. We were fine for a couple days but now he says he needs time but we’re not breaking up. It’s confusing me because he keeps telling me he’s not leaving me and that he still loves me. Today he texted me saying he just wants to be alone and that he wasn’t happy. We still say goodnight and good morning to each other.. I’m so confused
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Why are you confused? Guys respond badly to being told their girlfriend wants a break. This is his way of paying you back for it. Give him the time and space he needs to work through it and he'll be back when he thinks he's paid you back enough.
Just make a fuss of him when he comes back, saying you're sorry and all that schmutzy (Is that even a word?) stuff that children crave when they want attention, and things will be fine again.
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Sounds like the break caused him to realize that he's happier without you.
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You are both too immature to call it quits. You are going to drag it out and make it worse.
Breaks are a just a slow way of ending it.
So you want to rail other guys
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