What should I do if my boyfriend needs a break for 1 month?

[Anonymus2000]

Me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot in our relationship. He is going on a vacation tomorrow with friends and saying that he wants a break from writing, seeing eachother cause he needs to think and be with himself. He said that he has been planinng before to break up with me but he was sorry for me. What should I do? Should I give him time? I love him so much and I am verry hurt now.

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I just dont know if this is my fault🥲 I am really hurt I just wanted us to solve this together and he is speaking to me about break up🥲

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And how can he leave me broken like this and go on a vacation with friends instead of just talk to me?

[OlderAndWiser]

"I need to take a break" means I'm breaking up but we're not gonna have the break up talk. I'll just fade away and you'll get the hint eventually. And we can avoid all the drama of a break up, and I won't need to feel quite so guilty about breaking your heart.

So, what you need to do is to start looking or a new boyfriend, 'cause this one's fixin' to become history!

[OlderAndWiser]

Don't focus on "fault." Just think about how you contributed to the problems and what you can do to avoid repeating those mistakes in the future. Undoubtedly, he also contributed to the problems. And the fact that there were problems doesn't mean that one of you was "at fault." It may just mean that you finally discovered you are not compatible.

[Anonymus2000]

I never loved anyone like him or had a serious relationship like this. He said to me that he wants me to change some things and i promised I will and I want to fix things but he just suddenly says this to me before his trip. I don't know why he doesn't want to solve this with me. He says he will talk after month about our relationship and we can be sometimes in contact. I just can't believe that I am losing him and I dont know how to act now like everything is ok... Should I have faith that we will solve this or just give up? I am so hurt...

[Anonymous]

Sound a like he isn’t into you as much as you are into him. Maybe you’re a lot of drama. Him saying he feels bad for you or something like that means he’s staying w you out of pity. Which to me is fucked up. You should feel offended. More than likely this isn’t going to work out.

[Flower7]

You should just let him go and stop trying to hold on to the relationship. It’s really bad that he stays with you because of pity. You two are fighting a lot anyway, so it’s not like you have a lot to lose. This whole situation sounds very toxic and something that you should free yourself from.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Absence makes the heart grow fonder. This is a true statement.
Don't listen to these hacks, give him his break

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I haven't seen my ex in a month and I miss her like crazy. I don't even like the bitch

[NYCQuestions1976]

He's planning on getting laid while he's on vacation. You need to break up with him and move on.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Response to update: He's not interested in you any more beyond sex when necessary, and he's probably going to have sex while he's on vacation.

[KrakenAttackin]

If you loved him so much you wouldn't be picking fights with him.

[Anonymous]

Give him a break forever.