He said he needs time alone being misarable
No joke. He wants be left alone to feel misarable or while feeling miserable
What do i do?
Its like he is in some hole and he gets deeper and deeper in it and he enjoys it or smth
I dont get it
Is it even normal?
Sounds like he's got some stuff going on, and wants to be alone to process it. Ask him if he's sure that's what he wants; he'll probably say yes. Now, everyone needs some time alone from time to time, so that's okay in itself, but ask him how long he needs. He'll likely not know, so ask him to set a point in the future where you'll meet up again and go out to do something- it needn't be big, but it should be something you do together. Make it clear that this is important; it's not a "this is the day you'll be normal again by" thing, but a "we need to keep in touch and reinforce our connection" one.
Make that appointment with him, and hold him to it- the state of being mentally pinned down isn't usually something that pops up overnight, and clearing it isn't either, so realize he may not be all the way back to his usual self, but progress is progress. When you meet up, bake some cookies and bring them to him, or something like that- something to remind him that the world has its positives, too, and that you care for him.
You can dump him only if somehow u come to know that he is cheating.
Otherwise leave him alone for sometime. Maybe he is worried or depressed or need some time before any big decision.
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I'd dump him. What could he be going through that you can't help him through
leave him for some time and give hum space
NORMAAAALL, GIVE HIM TIME
Give him time
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