So, I met this guy, and we've been hanging out. It's going really well, but I want to get an idea of what this guy's intentions are. When we first met, he really emphasized how he was trying to find "the" girl / a relationship. It was really sweet sounding and it made me smile, but I was honest with him and said that I like to go with the flow and see where things take me. If it works out and we date, great, and if not, cool. Anyway, to get to the point -- we've been hanging out fairly regularly and he's pretty good about making plans to hang out with me next. We've spent the night at each other's places, cooked each other dinner, taken the dogs on long walks, etc. Maybe these are casual dates, I don't know, but at the very least -- we hang out. We also bang, a lot, and it's pretty fun. The only thing that's off is that he doesn't text a lot. He sends only a few texts a day, if at all, and then calls me once/twice a day. That's fine and all, I'm busy anyway (plus, it keeps me from getting emotionally invested too soon). But whats really got me hung up is that he's suddenly leaving things at my place -- toothbrush, change of clothes. In my head, I feel like we're friends with benefits. but I know friends with benefits (to my understanding) don't spend the night (or cook each other dinner?). He told me he wasn't sleeping with anyone else but he did say that if I was sleeping with others he understood / didn't care. So, is he just playing it cool? I feel like I'm getting mixed vibes between he wants to pursue a relationship/dating and just hooking up/friends with benefits's. It might be too soon to tell, but I like to be one step ahead. Thoughts?
What are his intentions?
