He texts me but ingnores in public. I don't know his intentions?

[Anonymous]

Via a course i met a guy. He included me in his group of friends. For about 3 weeks we texts. Also, he invited me on a couple parties. But at the events he doesn't even talked to me. I thought he was a dicent guy, but now I think he does the same to other girls. I don't know his intentions and i'm afraid that he will be bored soon and that he will exclude me of his group of friends whom i liked.

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It is weired, i want to be his friend. he is very social person. I'm not quite sure that i can trust him. On one ocasion we talk really open when no one was around (he talk about his family, friends what really matters to him) on the other side he likes to "help" other people especially girls. Also he likes to show off in front of friends (they talk about girls, their looks etc). I'm just wondering if it has a future, that maybe it will workout somehow.

[_Maya_]

That's really strange to want to hang out and invite you to events but not actually converse or be social with you. Sounds almost like he is using you reaaon. arm candy to look good. If it were me I would pass on this guy a d find someone that wants to get to know you. Maybe he is just nervous when it is in person but that makes the least sense to me. Sounds much more like he is using you for a specific reason.

[Ciel7889]

From what i read i will point some things out.
He's treats you as friend,
He's keeps the party overflowing.
And most importantly time will clear your dilemma.

[ManOnFire]

He could just be using you or other girls to make him look good in social scenes. Or using you to pull other girls. If he's a party guy or big on social get-togethers, he probably knows all the tricks of the trade when it comes to females.

I think the best thing to do is to slack off with this dude and not keep contact with him anymore. I'm 92% sure he is just using you for image.

[In_Trance]

He's bored and doesn't know what he wants

[BobLouis]

He's a shy guy.