Is he really flirting with me or am I going crazy?

[Beatriz919]

He is super smiling when he comes home and talks to my husband, out of nowhere I started thinking about him 24 hours a day, and I never talked to him, we only exchanged glances once, I already had a dream and in that dream it seemed very real, I entered in his room and when he woke up I and he got scared, and the next day very early he showed up at home, I sent him a message pretending I didn't know who he was and he said he already had my number saved, and asked if I was married?

[_Maya_]

I'm sorry but this isn't making a lot of sense to me. Perhaps it is the way you have it worded. You are married and a guy comes home and talks to your husband?

"He is super smiling when he comes home and talks to my husband"

Who is this guy and why is he coming to your home? That is the part that really doesn't make any sense to me. Who is "he" anyways? Is he a coworker? Is he a friend? There is a lot of missing context to this question so I'm not sure how to answer. The only thing I can say is that you have an issue on your hands if you are married and thinking of another guy 24 hours a day as you stated. You are at the very least emotionally cheating.

[Beatriz919]

I'm not cheating, we have an open relationship, out of nowhere I started thinking about him a lot, sometimes it's even annoying, the worst of all is that he's not my type, my dream was so real, and when I think too much about him always appears next. About the message did he say he had my number too and asked if I was married to see if I would give him a break?

[laly520]

time to put some distance
doesn't sound right at all
or
talk to ur husband about it since u r in an open relationship

[Beatriz919]

My husband and I have an open relationship, but we no longer talk about the flings we have, I don't know if him saying he had my number saved was a sign

[DarkLegacy]

Im guessing that he is not, he seems more interested in your husband lol. And you seem to be placing a lot of emphasis on this dream you had. Are you sure you don't like him and you are meant to be married.

[Beatriz919]

mercy lol

[molonski2]

Apologies , but what you have written there does not make sense , perhaps you can expand a little on details , you dreamed of him and then he came? He spoke to your husband?

[Beatriz919]

He is a friend of my "husband", the two were going partying together, this friend of his always comes to the house, I don't talk to him, we only exchange glances once, after that he comes every day, and my "partner" " says he is too happy, whenever I dream he appears the next day. My husband and I have an open relationship

[Beatriz919]

My husband says his nickname is now happy, but he became like that after we exchanged glances, I sent a message pretending I didn't know the number was his, and he said he already had my number saved

[molonski2]

Right , thats better , so you are actually interested in him , and you have an open relationship? Maybe invite him for a threesome.

[Beatriz919]

If he accepted it would be amazing lol, but I don't know if he's interested too

[molonski2]

I can tell you 100% he's interested , you have said as much..
Call him on that number and make out like it was a mistake " Ohhh Sht - Happy OMG "
Like this. Thought this was the Pizza delivery.

[FuqUFggt]

You're not going crazy, you are already there