Why is the guy I’m talking to sending me TikToks of other girls?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been talking to this guy for close to four months and I realized he has a habit of sending me TikTok’s of girls saying something along the lines of “she’s so hot, she’s so sexy” usually I’d agree with him because attractive people will always be attractive and I can’t change that but it’s getting weird and awkward and I want to take this as a sign that he doesn’t like me like that anymore….

[_Maya_]

One possible reason is that he could be passively trying to get a reaction out of you. This is his way to see if you will get jealous which in his mind will tell him you like him. It is not much different than someone that is insecure and keeps asking if you like him. This is just a more passive way of doing things. It also isn't the best strategy because as you already know that gets annoying. Best tell him to knock it off and that you really don't find the videos entertaining. That might be enough to get him to wake up and stop doing it. He may just find another way to do it tho. Hopefully he gets the picture.

[_Maya_]

Thank you for most helpful opinion!

[sage2021]

That's just too weird. It's like he's treating you like one of the guys 🙄

[michol123]

I imagine he's trying to lower your self esteem. Lookout for back handed compliments

[Asker]

Oh boy:/

[Wise4myage]

That's weird, is he trying to make you feel jealous?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know strange why don’t you ask him?