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I have this female friend who confessed that she thinks her boyfriend is ugly and is only with him because he’s nice. She said: “He’s ugly but he’s a very nice person.” Don’t you think it’s cruel to be playing with a guy’s feelings like that. The guy might think that you actually find him attractive but in reality it’s the opposite. Sooner or later that guy will probably find out and break up with you. If you date “ugly” men, what’s the purpose? I understand that people say that “women are less visual when it comes to physical attraction” but still.Note: I’m not saying every woman dates guys they don’t find attractive.

So I got a message on a dating app... to my shock it was a hot young chick... when I asked her age she said 18.

At first I thought it was a catfish as she was very attractive and also the fact I have 15 years on her ( I look good for my age and can pass for 25)... anyways I was flattered and just kept chatting then she asked if we could meet up.. I still had doubts of her being a catfish so played along... until she video called me and it turned out she was infact who she said she was and tbh I was shocked.

So after chatting for a little while on video, she revealed a few things about herself one being she was a virgin and also that she wanted to meet up/maybe come to mine.

I being a red blooded male at first was like sure... of course a hot young woman can come to my place... but the more I thought about it the more I started feeling a bit crap about it... there is definitely a naivety about her yet in other ways very mature... bookish/student.

I knew if she came over, it would lead to things happening and then I thought do I really want her first time to be with some older guy that was based purely on a physical attraction... it should be with a guy she is dating and means something... so I declined her in the end and told her why, she said she didn't care about that stuff but I stuck to my guns and as much as I would loved too I knew I couldn't live with it.

that's not to say she ain't gonna meet some other dude twice her age and regret it... but at least I will know it wasn't me.

So thoughts medal for passing up a hot girl because it was the right thing to do? or should I have just given in and invited her over?