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Okay I know I post about him frequently, and I did earlier but I was doubtful. BUT YOU GOTTA READ THIS!!!

We’ve been talking nonstop for about a month and a half, and we’ve known each other for 4 years. Today, we had been talking about some deep stuff regarding my struggles and family life. I made an off-handed comment about how our conversations always become kinda depressing as we rant about our lives. He responded with “Not always.”

Then I casually told him that I was going in the shower so brb.

Him: Send pics 😂😂 Enjoy your shower.

Me (seeing that after I got out of the shower): Aw, I was in my silky pink underwear. 😂 What a missed opportunity.

Him: Damn 😂

Me: But fr. Anyone who sends nudes is stupid. Like, if you wanna see me in my prime, come over to my house. 😂 I would never send nudes or anything like that.

Him: Is that an invite?

Me: It’s what you want it to be ;) 😂

Him: Oh man

Me: Too bad I have a hot date with sleep. Maybe next time

Him: Maybe so

Me: So I’m wearing Pikachu pajamas. I promise I’m not 10 lol

Him: What about under them? 💁🏻‍♀️

Me: Black underwear 👌🏻🔥🔥😂

Him: You finna show me? 😂

Me: 🅱️, I already laid down the law. But that’s just teasing.

Him: What’s wrong with a little tease? 😂

Me: I think I’ve made it pretty obvious I don’t play games. When I want something, I want it. No games.

Him: What happened to sleep? 😂

Me: Plans change lol but fr I’m gonna go to sleep so goodnight

Him: Goodnight

I can’t believe we flirted like that omg. I have never flirted like that ever, so this is new to me. I’ve known him for four years, so I know he’s not the f*ckoy type that tries to get into girl’s pants. He really is a genuine and good person. I’m just surprised things got heated like that! What do you think? Is it obvious he likes me?

Met on tinder, FWB/one night stand situation, planned to meet that night. He added me on FB & Instagram then texted me non-stop til our date telling/asking me about his and my life. He's been lied to in the past, so we promised to be honest with one another. At one point I joked he was just a one night stand to which he seemed upset with, saying it that all i really wanted and he would prefer to take things slow.

We met, he bought me a few drinks, we had good conversation until he told me he left a girl sitting at a table one time on a date because she wasn't attractive, so we got in a little argument.

Went to the bathroom, came back, suddenly he wants to go home. I asked him if he meant he wanted me to come over, he said no. He asked me what i wanted from him. I told him he talked to much today, I no longer just could see him as a one night stand. He asked me where i was today and after i told him he said he kept seeing my location change on tinder. We got up to leave and he said "Im only going to break your heart". Got to our cars, we started kissing and I grabbed his back and pushed him towards me, he backed up and said, okay that it your going to see me again. I said no, please, and he said no. I then screamed you won't see me again, please, and he said fine. I got in my car went home and deleted him off every media platform.

Fast forward week later, i saw he viewed my linkedin the day we met, and even though i deleted him from Instagram he was still watching my stories. I messaged him asking if we could talk and he blocked me. WHY?

I had been with my fiancé for about 2 years he lived with me at my parents house and I worked and provide for us cuz he didn't have a job he would get small jobs but they never lasted and I stayed cuz I love him but we would always fight cuz I felt this anger/ resentment towards him cuz I was always working and he never did anything but the deal breaker was last week I found out that he had been cheating on me he met her online in January and then met her in person she was a virgin and they had sex but only half way cuz she couldn't take it ( I talked to her and she told me everything ) he had my brother who's dating my ex bestfriend take him to meet her and he would pick him up and they would give him $ for gas that part hurt more cuz my brother and his stupid girlfriend must really hate me to help him cheat on me when I found out everything I broke up with him and kicked him out i was so hurt i punched him multiple times but anyways he went to live with his mom again and he promises that he will change we are still broken up but he won't stop calling me and I love him and I'm the only one who believes that he will change and that he can become someone in life he says he will do whatever it take to get me back and that he loves me and that he made a mistake and I of course I want to believe him by everyone tells me I should move on and I somewhat agree I feel like if I keep taking to him he will just stay the same but he so far has applied for jobs and i saw him two days ago to leave him his things he left at my house and I couldn't resist him I love him so much and I want to be with him that I slept with him again but it was more than just that we cried and hugged we looked into our eyes and touched each other like it was the last time and I know I shouldn't of but now I'm so confused and I don't know what to do nobody and I mean it when I say nobody wants us to get back together but I don't know what to do I fell so incomplete without him