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A few years ago, a girl at a neighboring store was super into me, and I thought she was really nice. But my store was closed soon later and after a few months, I asked her on Facebook, since I had to work so much if she'd be interested in being friends with benefits for a while. She said yes.
After a few missed opportunities to get together, because I was working two jobs, she said she wanted to be on a proper date first.
We stopped talking for a few weeks and started again, and she kept telling me how after a few times she wanted to try sex with whipped cream and chocolate syrup and asked to meet her one night do we could start.
After talking for a bit, I kissed her to get the ball rolling, and she said she changed her mind and still wanted a date, but kept grabbing me. Then we kissed again, and she said date first.
We've been on and off conversation over the year, and we recently started talking again, because she picked up a second job too.
Since we're both so busy, if I ask again, would it actually become a real friends with benefits?

Someone wrote this on Quora, and I thought it would be a good idea to test it here.

To give some context I'm going to include my current online dating profile.
Just a chilled out guy, I can reach tall shelves, look good in a suit and deflect questions about marriage and having kids.
At work I can watch Netflix, Youtube, Stan anything really.
Passionate about Travel (America, Japan, Canada, Thailand, Fiji and have seen 90% of Australia).
I really only enjoy writing (detective short fiction), reading and performance (doing a stand-up comedy course and practicing magic).
I work in Radio 14:00 - 22:00 so I find it difficult to meet people at night.
Looking for someone with similar interests. I have an active social life and check messages daily.

EXTRA
Online dating can be a bit of a mindfield so I use rules
1. If I send the first message, that means let's should chat for a bit then it would be nice to grab coffee/tea/drinks.
2. I'm currently open to all forms of relationships
3. I'm a nice guy, but also direct so I won't ghost, play games or pretend to be something I'm not.
***** During our conversation you will inevitably drop slight, casual hints that you would like to meet up - and me being the knuckle dragging small minded biped that I can be - will miss them entirely - So this is the safe word **BANANA** the safe word means, okay I can see this charming, exceptionally tailored, refined gentleman is my cup of tea - let's go on a casual and see what happens.
p. s - Need someone to show me how to use instagram :)