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First dates can arouse some anxiety. What will they be like? How will they act? Are they loud and obnoxious? Etc. If you have not previously met them, and have not previously seen them, you have even more reasons to be concerned.

I have had a first date with a woman I met online. Her pictures were fairly cute but when she showed up, it was obvious that those pictures had been taken about a 100 pounds ago! It might not have been such a huge problem if she had been honest up front about her size. I had a first date with a lady who was just as cute as her pictures on POF, but I'm not sure she stopped talking more than 30 seconds during our date. Another first date (the only coffee date I ever had) opened her mouth and it looked like her teeth had not been cleaned or even brushed in 30+ years; the idea of kissing her was disgusting!

Have you had a bad first date experience?

Hoping to hear from women in the early 20’s age demographic since this is when women can be most selective.

I know you have better things to be doing on a Saturday night, but before you go to the bar, I’d appreciate a brief thought and a vote. Imagine you are going through your day and you run into a not ugly guy in public — he has one of the poll option moods at the moment. Which of the optioned moods would you be happiest to see if the intention was to be potentially involved with this person at a later date, time or place in any (sexual) capacity?

The obvious answer is both kind and masculine at different times, but please choose as if both was not an option — strictly for the one moment/opportunity you get to form a first impression.

I’ll add photo examples of the demeanors I’m talking about. Reason I ask is I’ve been in a bad mood the last few days due to moving home for summer and not yet having an income (essentially being stuck at home all the time = Hell). The one thing I’ve had access to is the gym, but I notice people act different around me when I’m in a bad mood. They steer clear. Girls ask me how I’m doing with a concerned look. Etc.

People honestly look scared of me.

This had me wondering, masculinity is usually characterized as some form of pent up aggression and hostility— sort of the way I am when I’m in a bad mood. Usually I’m pretty bubbly and easy going. I find that when in a good mood I get more positive attention in general, and women seem more interested. If I’m in a bad mood people just... steer clear.

So, which do you prefer? Today I was somewhere between standoffish and potentially aggressive. Just curious to know. Thanks.