The most effective ways to attract women

[Anonymous]

Here I will share the most effective ways to attract women in no particular order. However if you do multiple ways to attract women, you'll get exponentially multiplied results. Women will be all over you if you follow these methods to attract women (provided you don't intend to attract taken or married women that is).

You also have to consider, that you must be a "normal" man in some ways if you want a to attract a good woman to begin with or else you can pretty much forget about it. What I mean is that you must...

- Have at least some grammar. Nobody likes to figure out what you said if you communicate like this "i luv 2 B awsum" or "wdym". At least no normal woman would. The same goes for having 0 punctuation, which is unattractive. Also do your best to reduce your usage of vulgar words because that is simply not attractive and at most keep them for fitting situations.

- Don't be careless about your appearance and smell. Women pick that up at the first time meeting with you.

- Be decent. Don't be an asshole and don't go those extra 10 miles to be another Elliot "reddit nice guy" Rodger.

And now for the most effective ways to attract women:

Money. Tons of money!

Don't be too disappointed. This has been the obvious and proven method to attract women. I mean everyone loves money but women love money even more. Some love it so much that they either make their own or find a sugar daddy. And if it works, then that's it. Money is a form of security. There is never enough!

Money will get you the things you want and need and money has been proven to boost confidence. Whatever you do, DO NOT call women gold diggers or think of them as such! Women can and will sense that from you sooner than you may even think of it.

The important lesson here is you should sustain yourself and have some leftover left. Ideally a woman would do the same.

Everybody wants money! But not everybody does what it takes to get more money

Be muscular

Make your body a tank. Muscles means strength and women are attracted to that because then you can protect yourself and her from dangers, which is also a form of security.

Example of being muscular

Own a SUV

SUVs are cool. Men like SUVs but women may like SUVs even more like Porsche for example. Hell, anything will do, that either looks stylish or high class. Show 'em, that you are the big boy around here with one of these bad boys.

vroom vroom! You know that sweet sound of a working and powerful engine!

High intelligence

It's not about thinking being highly intellectual. It's about actually being intelligent. There is a difference.

The former is assuming things to be true (example: watching news and assuming a country is completely like that VS actually been in that location to know any better) and that leaves you looking nothing more than an ass. The latter is knowing things and being able to hold intellectual communications.

It may mean knowing the kinetic energy physics formula, thermodynamics, chemistry and it's interaction with the human body, protons, neurons, security vulnerabilities of anything, recipes, maintaining businesses/managing people and so on and so on. There is something for everyone.

This is how i imagine normal working brains to be

Looks

Women care about looks not any less than we do. So make sure you like the way you look and try to find a few middle grounds from women's feedback if you don't mind too much. Check out some cool hairstyles, beards (if that's your thing), clothing, maybe a nice pendant and see what you like. Grooming is sexy! Trust me on this one.

Looks are the opening keys. Once you have your style you'll get further with dating and getting to know each other. From there on there will be the deciding factors such as your personality, which women will catch on and then decide to keep you or to move on.

Such is dating.

One last thing: keep the logic at a moderate level at maximum. Women aren't men and women are driven by emotions and feelings. So think not with logic but with emotions and feelings and you'll begin to understand women even better and you may even entertain women.

Good luck and be confident with these methods. Remember the truths and treat the truths appropriately.

[purplepoppy]

Congratulations you've single handily destroyed the confidence of 99.9% of men. Now every guy who isn't a millionaire, steroid induced supermodel with a PhD is going to be terrified of rejection.

[myTake Owner]

I meant it for the betterment of men, so they can strive towards these goals and make them attractive to women.

[Guardian45]

@purplepoppy. For someone so young, you speak wisely.

[BrittBratt2416]

men were already terrified of rejection though... but it will probably boost their paranoia even more lol

[AlexanderKinson]

Couldn't help but to laugh out loud while reading this comment, lol!

Redpillers don't believe in love, only the Hippocampus 😉

[FalconSlayer]

I know, right? 😂😂😂

[abe884]

i doubt you have any of those characteristics/traits though

[Secretgardenblood]

Good take:)

[JustWorthlessMe]

pretty simple truths guaranteed to piss the women here off...

[MarkTKD]

And here I was hoping it'd actually be a bit smarter, when in fact it's the usual "superficial women" bullcrap.

Let me tell you one thing: all you said is true for those stuck up billionaire daughters. For the average woman, here's what she really wants.

1. Education. Every woman likes a man who has his own opinions on topics, who has a lot of knowledge and who has a way with words. That's why witty pickup lines and responses work very well.

2. Ambitions. Men who have ambitions will always strive to achieve them, which means they'll always keep getting better and improving.

3. Interests. A man with a lot of interests is interesting himself. He has a lot of stories to share, both fun and sad, and this gives depth to his personality and life.

4. Humor. Everyone loves to laugh. Laughing is one of our greatest stress relievers and it releases endorphines, aka. happiness hormones.

5. Assertiveness. This is a huge turn-on for many women. Women love it when a guy us able to do what he wants and when he is able to present himself as an authoritive figure. This is why most relationships where the guy puts himself on the same footing as the woman tend to fall apart and end up with the girl cheating on the guy. It's also biological, because in every social species, the females always go for the alphas, the leaders, as a way of nature's selective breeding. And this is exactly why 9/10 times women end up dating an asshole, because assholes are arrogant and arrogance gives off the air of dominance (though it's not the same).

6. Self-confidence. You can be the ugliest and fattest person out there, but if you're self-confident and show it, your chances are equal to that of a low self-confidence model.

7. Power. It doesn't matter what form of power. It can be financial, social, physical, mental, women love men with power because that gives them a huge sense of security. You don't have to be rich, steroid-buffed and a genius, but at least get youself to a slightly above average in all those fields and you're gucci.

8. And lastly, skills. This is something you'll mostly need once you actually start something, but it'll also work to attract women if they find out you have certain skills. I'm talking about stuff like masages, knowing martial arts or self-defense arts, bedroom skills, cooking skills, driving skills, artistic skills, musical skills, etc. If you've got skills which are able to either impress her or make her happy, they're a huge asset to keeping her interested.

These are some of the main things that I've found working on women. I'd love to hear what other women have to say to this though

[myTake Owner]

Isn't that what I directly laid out?

1, 2 and 7 are related to my number 1 - having tons of money
5 is related to my number 2 - being ripped
3 and 8 are related to my number 4 - intelligence
6 can be achieved by my number 5 - looks. If you like the look of yourself, confidence comes in naturally.

Really, i did put it all there together, then I get some disagreeing with me and then have them tell me with other words exactly what I have said here. Jeez! How can people have the same advises, yet disagree with each other about the same advises?

[MarkTKD]

Nah. Education, and ambitions have close to nothing to do with money. You can be well educated without paying tons of money for college. I'm studying programming in college, yet I've got a fairly vast knowledge of social sciences, politics, basic anathomy, training planning and programming for athletes, basic biomechanics of the human body, etc. And I spent no money on that, because I learned myself using easily accessible research papers and books online, as well as asking questions from people who are experts in their fields. Education goes far beyond school and college if you want it to.
As for ambitions, most ambitious people actually come from poor backgrounds. People like Tyson, Ali, Alexander Hamilton, and many other great and ambitious men started from barely anything. I come from a family where my parents were basically living off of favors from others, yet I'm ambitious to succeed in my life and expand my knowledge.
Only power is related to money, although it's only 1 aspect of power. You can be a powerful man with no money too, if you have lots of connections for example.

Assertiveness and being ripped are commonly mistaken to go hand in hand. I'm far from ripped, yet I'm assertive enough to make ripped guys 50+ lbs heavier than me back off if I get between then and another person in a fight. Assertiveness is a personality trait which heavily reflects your self-confidence and stability. Being ripped can help you with self-confidence, but I know many ripped guys who are nowhere nearly as assertive as I am when it comes to a tense situation. And that says something coming from a 5'9 145 lbs guy.

Interests and skills aren't nearly the same as intelligence. You can have an IQ of 200 and still have no skills or interests. And you can also be an 80 IQ retard and be very skilled and have lots of interests. Intelligence is more related to humor and power than anything else on my list.

[MarkTKD]

While it is true that looks can boost your self-confidence, it's not looks that women fall for. All that matters is that you are self-confident, and self-confidence comes from a lot of things, such as looks, mastery of martial arts or self-defense, high intelligence, a good job, a stable income, a good number of friends, good social standing, etc. Your looks are just one small contributing factor to what actually attracts women. And if you'll notice, that's a recurring theme in all your points. You only go for the first thing you see, you don't think about why exactly it attracts a woman. This is why you're shallow and why only shallow women fall for this. All you said is enough to attract a shallow woman, but will only be a few extra pluses for most women. Most women will look for what I wrote, since those are actually things which bring value to you as a person.

[myTake Owner]

Fair enough. Thank you for your feedback! I will think about this.

[Girl2890]

Ok but why would a guy get advise from another about how to attract a girl, shouldn’t he be wanting advise from an actual fucking girl🙄

[MarkTKD]

@Girl2890 well, that's kinda sexist don't ya think? You can't dismiss a guy's advice about attracting girls just because he's a guy. And it's not like asking a girl will guarantee that you'll get a 100% correct answer just because she's a girl. Or are you saying you'd blindly believe any and all advice a guy gives you about attracting a guy if it were you and wouldn't listen to what your female friends say?

[Girl2890]

I never believe what girls say about advise for guys I always ask guys, not it’s sexist it’s just facts, I’m pretty a girl knows better what she wants then some guy

[MarkTKD]

@Girl2890 the girl knows what SHE wants and gives you advice based on that. A guy has experience with different girls who desire different things and is able to se a trend of what's the most common attraction factor for the girls he's been with. So unless the girl has tried attracting other girls using a guy's body, she can't really say much. Especially when both guys and girls think that their opinion on the most important things in a relationship for their sex is the best one. A guy who's attracted to women for looks and money will argue that most men want that, since that's the most logical thing to them. And if you ask a guy like that, you'll get the idea that all men want that, since he'll present it that way due to his personal bias. But if you ask him about what women like, he'll have a broader perspective since he'll know what reasons he's been rejected for and he'll know what things worked on the type of women he was going after.

What I wrote above was a very broad generalization of what I've found that most women want and value, based on my personal experience and interest in social studies for the last few years, mostly through self-learning by reading studies and social experiments. And the advice I wrote above was all based around that, which is why I asked for confirmation from women to see if my thoughts and observations are correct. And since I'm a man talking about what attracts women, it eliminates the personal bias I've mentioned. So that's why your "facts" aren't really facts, but a prejudice which doesn't take into account a lot of different factors. And due to that prejudice, you've implicitly made a sexist claim, basically saying a man's opinion on what attracts a woman in a man has less worth than a woman's opinion.

[StephenCF]

I think dressing dapper (particularly boldly) is a MAJOR factor in attracting women, particularly 3-piece suits and trenchcoats or winter coats.

I hardly ever received attention from girls until I gradually adopted dandyism in 2016. I dress like these gentlemen on a regular basis now, and (by no coincidence) many girls notice me, compliment me or strike up a flirty conversation... 😍😏🎩👔

[FalconSlayer]

Interesting. Duly noted. 😆

[Girl2890]

Honestly if you dress like that you’d look like your try a be a goody little to shoes, I like guys who dress like guys not like that

[StephenCF]

@Girl2890 Ok, so how does someone dress “like a guy” if classiness isn’t it? 😒

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Meh, social skills and sexual communication will get most guys further than obsessing over money and looks. Yes, yes, money and looks will help a lot-- but when you look at the net investment of time and energy required between input and output, learning to be "social and sexual" is, pound for pound, a better return on investment. Of course, life is about balance, you should work out, eat healthy, drive a car that's not a beaten up smelly old piece of shit, and do as much with your appearance as possible. But these things are just part of an overall picture, and most of them will continue to be works in progress well into men's middle age. Whereas social skills and learning to communicate sexually in a way women like can be learned in a few months to a few years, tops.

[Supernatural_fanatic]

The only one I really agree with is intelligence. Idc if he has loads of money, just enough to contribute is all I’m asking. Not a fan of that super muscular look personally, but I do like muscles still. SUV doesn’t really have much of an effect of how I view people. Good looks is different depending on which girl you ask.

[BrittBratt2416]

honestly just by dressing a bit nicer, will boost your chances even more. Women love guy who has good fashion sense.

[myTake Owner]

Can you show me some examples of men who have a good fashion sense? Does it have to be a suit?

[BrittBratt2416]

I kind of like the what formal casual look, i think it looks really neat on a guy



Street style is very nice looking to:

[myTake Owner]

Cool! Thanks!
I only dislike the ripped jeans trend.
I'm personally no fan of suits. I myself like regular fashion with nice looking clothes.

[Kaazsz]

This is all a bunch of fucking bullshit.

You know what women are attracted to? MEN.

You just gotta be a man to attract a woman (well a straight one I suppose lmao).

Be confident. Be direct. Be honest.

Those things need explaining but y’all don’t deserve a fucking explanation :)

[chuck991]

Couldn't disagree with you more. Women are not all as superficial as you make them out to be. So poor, ugly, dumb, fat guys all can't attract any women? Get out of here with your terrible advice.

[myTake Owner]

But isn't that so?
Do you really think women won't reject a guy, who is poor or too fat or doesn't even have a drivers license or is stupid or ugly?

Or would you tell me that women don't have standards?

[chuck991]

No one is perfect. Women will love you for who you are. Sure, it's good to have all of those things but who does? The same applies to women too - the smart, rich, supermodels of this world are few and far between

[myTake Owner]

You make a good point.

[Holistic]

A lot of women don't give a damn if you're rich or poor, nor do they care about the brand of car you have. It's about what kind of person you are as a whole, and whether you are compatible with her.

[WalterBlack]

I thought this would be something useful. But you are just regurgitating common knowledge & questionable advice that you can find on hundreds of other websites.

[myTake Owner]

Well then that's because it's actually true, don't you think?

[Harmseygrace]

That’s all absolute bullshit. Where the fuck did you get those ideas from?

[Harmseygrace]

Okay first of all, it’s not all about money. It’s much more that that, I could care less about it. I don’t really like muscular guys, they’d just be really uncomfy to lie on, and a lot of girls would agree. The cars ugly, utes are better. Yeah, I agree, being smart is attractive, but I don’t really care all that much. Look at my ex’s, looks are not important to me one little bit. All I care about is someone who loves me, treats me well, and has good values. This is probably the worst thing ever written.

[myTake Owner]

But isn't that so?
Will you really reject a guy, who is poor or too fat or doesn't even have a drivers license or is stupid or ugly?

Or would you tell me that some men are too good to be true?

[Harmseygrace]

What?

[myTake Owner]

Nevermind. We replied at the same time and just now i saw your response.
So what body type of men are favored among the ladies?

[Harmseygrace]

Well for me a little more like a dad bod.

[ShiningWalwus]

Buddy, your arguing with a 15 y/o who loves boys. wasn't intelligence on your list? This is why i don't agree with your list fully but still good points

[Nadim171]

That's more like how to attract gold diggers who don't care about anything else other than sex and money

[Harmseygrace]

@Nadim171 Yeah it is.

[Nadim171]

@Hatmseygrace I wouldn't even try that method he talked about...

[Harmseygrace]

@Nadim171 Haha yeah. You've actually got a brain. 😂

[Nadim171]

😂😂😂

[BrittBratt2416]

men online... most likely this place.

[Harmseygrace]

@BrittBratt2416 Yup they're all a bunch of idiots.

[Nadim171]

@Harmseygrace most are but not all... 😂

[Harmseygrace]

@Nadim171 Haha yeah. Not you.

[Nadim171]

Haha hoever I agree with "most"

[Harmseygrace]

@Nadim171 Yeah, its pretty true.

[Nadim171]

Yes that's true, and I always get hate comments for helping girls on here...

[thefutureisfemale]

Most of these will not attract me lmao.
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[Just_a_human]

" assuming things to be true"

I guess people should keep that in mind when they read this post.

[myTake Owner]

Very funny. I will take no offense.

[FalconSlayer]

Wow, well... yeah you're right. 😂

[Anonymous]

... Welp... Guess I'm gonna be single until the day I die. Thank you for confirming that.

[myTake Owner]

Happy to help.
But you can always work your way up towards promotions and hire prostitutes. They could be cheaper and could be a much more effective alternative. Still better than nothing if you ask me.

[Anonymous]

[Lman3000]

wow all the shit I do not have, I guess I'm fucked, ha except I did have GF's without that shit before showing how this post is full of shit but fuck it believe it if you want

[CT_CD]

I agree. Just be tall, fit and good looking with a great job

[MuhammedSaeed]

You are talking about a dream man to a girl, if we all like this then how they will pick up one

[Aphrodite801]

Only thing that attracts me on here is looks and muscles

[Anonymous]

Hahaha so true only the point with money is not true for me. I have mommy issues. So he can use my money hahs

[iFarted]

You have lots of moneys? 😉

[Giggletr0n]

Slip a piece of metal down their back and use a BIG magnet