Search Results: say i love you marriage

So here we go
I am married and he knows (in a bad marriage but a marriage)
I have known him for at least 5 years
We used to be co-workers and now he is one of my dearest and most trusted friends
I have seen him twice in 2018- went to visit with him and we had a great time as FRIENDS
We live far away (different US states)

WHY TELL ME "LOVE YOU"? He said when he called me last - I kinda just wrote it off as something he says when he gets off the phone
THEN he WROTE it in a message. UGGGH

WTF is going on? LOL... help me out and take the poll and of course feel free to leave a personal opinion as well

So, our tutor...

He says many things, some of those things are highly disturbing.

By the way, it's a GIRLS ONLY class.

"Men and women can not, and should not be friends. Friends shouldn't be of opposite gender. You girls shouldn't talk to guys, because guys are not good at all, he would try to... You know... be in a relationship with you. I expect you to obey me."

"You girls shouldn't think that 'Why should women take the husband's last name after marriage?' That's how the world works, logic doesn't answer everything!"

"If you run off with a guy to marry, I would never forgive you. Love marriage is wrong on so many levels! Arranged marriages are the best! I love how my mother and father were married, they didn't even see each other before the marriage. You betray your parents if you do it. I expect you to obey me."

He says we shouldn't talk to guys, guys are bad, evil monsters, harassers, etc.

"Girls' favourite colour MUST BE pink or red, it shows femininity. But now a days, we have these weak men who like pink! How sad!"

"You need not to choose your life partner for you. That's your parents' job, they'll help you find your partner, you just have to accept him or decline. Leave it to your parents!"

"Besides, women are the weaker gender, restrictions on you are apt and appropriate! Let me tell you how you are weak, you are physically weaker, shorter and smaller. You are more emotional, while us men tend to be more logical! Men could be more intelligent too, just look at the world around you. Everything is built and is being maintained by men."

"Women can't keep a secret, women also tend to get scared easily! I used to scare the girls of my class by throwing cockroaches and lizards at them, haha!"

"No matter how modern you be, always respect traditions and follow them."

"You women are weak just like Eve, the first female, being punished!"

All of these things were said by him.
I dislike how he expects us to obey him that way. His views...
Or is he right?