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I saw someone else post about her experience earlier and she’s close to my age, about guys friendzoning her. I can’t say my experience has been any better, I get guys interested in me but I don’t like them back. There’s sometimes no connection or just something about them that doesn’t peak my interest. But the ones I do like, they’re not interested or just want sex. I’m not the casual type so I don’t wanna be used as a booty call plus I really don’t want to settle with someone else just for the sake of not being alone. I am not one to usually message guys first, all my experiences except one time were a result of the guys msging me first. I am not lucky like other women who message first, I don’t do it often but I really feel like that shouldn’t be make or break. When I did message first, it didn’t go anywhere except one time and that guy was was a dick🤷🏻‍♀️

So I've always been a rather reserved person, and never really hugged anyone till I met my girlfriend. I am 19, she is 22.

However, my girlfriend is just SO affectionate with people she is close to... I'm fine with it, but it's all new to me. I'm not used to seeing it, since I didn't hang out with friends too much growing up. To be fair, she's only this way with other girls, not guys, but I know she's bisexual, while I'm lesbian...

But anyways, she HUGS people a lot, first of all... pretty tightly, too. Face squeezed up against their face, and all. She also PECKS them on the cheek. Not all of them, but about half of them. She also likes to SIT CLOSE to them, thighs and shoulders touching and all. She even does this while in SWIMSUITS and SHORT SHORTS and TANK TOPS... so a lot of bare skin contact, heh... she says "it's just skin, no big deal at all silly!"

I don't know if I'm just weird, but doing what she does so often, so frequently, with so many friends and family members... would just give me sensory overload.

I know that none of her friends or family members are lesbian or bisexual though. So it's safe, but I can't help but wonder if this is normal...

Whenever I bring this up to my girlfriend, she just laughs and says, "How silly! I'm just really, REALLY affectionate! And besides, remember this, queen... you're the only one I French kiss and have sex with everyday, so no need to be jealous, ya goofball!"

So that makes me feel better, haha.

If it matters, my girlfriend is Black, 22 years old, 5'11, muscular, curvy... when it comes to hugging shorter people she has to sort of pick them up, or else her boobs will literally be in their face, lol. It's kind of humorous. 😂😂😂