I'm a fit good looking guy and have been single for 17 years and no sex for 15 years. There is a goos reason I never approach women and I wondered if other men felt the same.
It's not so much that I'm afradi of rejection, I feel as though my pride prevents me from pursuing a woman. Let me explain. I think we can agree that women, in general, have an unfair advantage when it comes to dating. Women get far more attention than what men get, in general. So as a man it feels that me making the first move and pursuing a woman makes me feel needy or that I'm giving my power away. It makes me feel as though the woman is above me because I'm the one doing the chasing. I feel as though I'm the one that has to prove my worth before she even considers me as a possible boyfriend. So by making the first move and pursuing the woman, it makes me feel needy and like she's above me, and that she can replace me with another man very easily. As a man it feels unfair that I'm the one expected to prove my worth, whereas a woman doesn't really have to do anything. Does anybodt else feel this way?
It's not so much that I'm afradi of rejection, I feel as though my pride prevents me from pursuing a woman. Let me explain. I think we can agree that women, in general, have an unfair advantage when it comes to dating. Women get far more attention than what men get, in general. So as a man it feels that me making the first move and pursuing a woman makes me feel needy or that I'm giving my power away. It makes me feel as though the woman is above me because I'm the one doing the chasing. I feel as though I'm the one that has to prove my worth before she even considers me as a possible boyfriend. So by making the first move and pursuing the woman, it makes me feel needy and like she's above me, and that she can replace me with another man very easily. As a man it feels unfair that I'm the one expected to prove my worth, whereas a woman doesn't really have to do anything. Does anybodt else feel this way?
