Any tips on how to be a good girlfriend? What makes men happy and satisfied in relationships?

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I'm asking this because I feel like personally, I'm a mediocre to "ok" partner. Yes, it's kind of a dumb or cringy question, but I'm curious to see what men like in relationships. I don't cheat, I don't flirt with other men, I buy him gifts, I let him play his videogames, but I just feel like more could be done.

Personally, I don't know many good relationships. My parents are divorced, most of my friends are bitter single babymamas, and most people around me are in unhappy relationships and marriages. Or they cheat like crazy. In the hood, if you're not getting cheated or abused (physical, verbal, etc) they pretty much consider that a great relationship because the standards are so low. But I feel there's more to making your partner happy than that- those should be a given, not "high standards".
I see movies, but let's face it, they center more on what women want in relationships vs what men want. Most romance in the media - books, movies, TV etc is centered on the guy wooing the woman, him trying everything to please her and just the female idealized version of love. I'd love to see more on the man's idea of love (and no I don't mean porn). So before y'all go making fun of me, y'all can see I don't have many good examples to go off of. And I just really want my boyfriend to be extremely happy and satisfied because he does so much for me. Like will random flowers make men smile as much as it does to us? I know a lot of comedy shows joke that all men want is silence, make him a sandwich and please him sexually, but I feel that's too simplistic to be true. But I don't know, I'm not a guy so maybe that is the secret formula to keeping your man happy. What are little and big things that make men happy?
Yes I ask him but he says as long as I'm happy he's happy but I feel like there's more I could do!

TLDR: I'm just looking for tips on what makes men extremely happy in relationships? What do y'all like? Thank you :)

Any tips on how to be a good girlfriend? What makes men happy and satisfied in relationships?
Any tips on how to be a good girlfriend? What makes men happy and satisfied in relationships?
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