How to be a good girlfriend or partner?

[Anonymous]

I don't have much experience with relationship since I'm busy with my life and work. I want to know what is the best to maintain healthy relationship and what are the things that consider as toxic relationship. I also want to know what are the toxic girlfriend and what are the things to be considered as good girlfriend especially if i want this to be a long term relationship. Feel free to say something that's all thank you.

[slatyb]

Your boyfriend is just another person not so different from you. Like women, every man is different. We have our strengths and insecurities. Be considerate, and expect consideration in return. Don't put more into it that you are getting back. If it doesn't feel right, end it. "I love you" is bullshit unless they are showing it with loving behavior.

You can't trade sex for love. Have sex because you want to have sex, not because you think it will make him stay with you. Then when you do have sex, you will be getting something you want.

[ARWINGx1]

I can't speak for every (potential/prospecting) "boyfriend", as there are too many variables. And since I have no experience myself as well, I can only give my 2 cents on what I'am sure of.

Should either of "us" do something to offend the other, But if that "something" was never "disclosed" beforehand, then it wouldn't count.

Also, I prefer to go with the "from friendship to lover" path. So the "traditional" kind, I can't help with that either.