The fact that you are thinking about it already makes you a good girlfriend.
Firstly, not every guy is same so not all things may apply to your guy. Try to do things for your guy from your heart, things which make both you and him happy. You can write notes and letters for him, what you like about him. Have deep talks with him. Hold hands, be affectionate, gentle, polite. You can talk about hobbies both yours and his. Also be yourself and reciprocate love. That's the best thing you can do!
There are two types of men: 1) The type that aren't happy with anything and are constantly making you try to please them. 2) The type that are happy with anything and are constantly trying to make you pleased. The second type isn't dateable. Sickening clingy fucks. There is nothing you can do to make the first group happy, so just do everything they say and it will at least help them fill the emotional emptiness inside.
i love the quote. very true. i’d ask him straight up what he needs more from you, if there’s anything you do that bothers him and in what ways you guys can improve your relationship. hopefully he answers and asks you back. a little bit of effort goes a long way and i think if you’re asking these kinds of questions, you’re probably doing a great job already.
The small things make all the difference in relationships: cooking for him and doing what he wants is always a way to make him happy. If he likes a specific sports team buy him a tickets so you can both go. If he likes racing go gokarting or something. And most guys don't really like flowers, but there is always chocolates🤤
Talk to him about it! I believe that relationships should be based on communication.. You're obviously feeling a bit insecure which is why you're turning to an online stranger fest for advice. But if you truly want to be the one for him, then ask to talk to him about it and just voice your concerns. I'd say that he would absolutely love that you feel you can trust him with anything which is what would make ME happy in a relationship. Good luck with whatever you choose to do!
Screw these jokers with the "sex is enough" part. Having sex is normal in a relationship and it's nothing that solely keeps the guy happy. Try and laugh with him, joke with him, tease him, make him feel special to you. Both my ex's made breakfast for me nearly every day and I never asked for it. I did stuff in return ofc but they did small things that kept me feeling loved and important. Anything that shows effort and love will be appreciated especially if you ask him to help you by opening up about this. Communication is key.
if you ont wanna talk sex and such i would say its about balance. let him play his games but have a game or show you both watch each week so u still have that time together. also no flowers but maybe steak or whatever food he likes or you can afford that u know is special to him. without getting to deep thats what i think you should think about. after that maybe talk about saving up for a trip or weekend together.
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Obviously every guy is different but my boyfriend is simple... we do go on dates to restaurants and stuff but he really appreciates the little things like while he was at work I went round to his and made a cake, got food ready for dinner and did his meal prep for the next few days plus walked and fed his dog so that when he got home he could eat and cuddle while watching Netflix 😂 for him the little stuff like cuddles, talking, going on adventures sometimes, doing things together, back scratches, sitting in bed eating chocolate cake are the things that mean a lot to him and the fact I don’t mind he still wears batman pyjamas 😂
Ok want some tips. It the little things. You hear he's having a bad day get him his favourite snack/drink on your way home. If he has a favorite video game show interest in it and why he likes it. Seriously guys just want to know you care about what they think. Show that and you will be the best girlfriend ever.
Depends. Every man is different. I didn't want one single relationship I just wanted to be a flirt. Trying to pin me down would have been a bad idea. It's listening, watching and knowing what you're dealing with honestly because some guys are down for that and some aren't. There's nothing you cna change about yourself they will commit when they feel like it
Just as you are different from other girls, your guy will also be different from other guys. Everybody has his own likes, dislikes and preferences. So, before reaching to any conclusion, I would like to know more about your guy like what he do as profession, what are his hobbies, how he looks, and any other information which you think make him different from others (due to which you are in relationship with him instead of any other guy).
The best tip I was ever given as far as relationships go is that you both have to treat it like it's 60/40 instead of 50/50, but you both have to strive for that 60
Honestly, as long as each of you is happy, that's the way to go If one of you isn't happy, then the issue needs to be resolved (By the way, there is way more to being a good girlfriend than just letting him fuck you, which you should wanna do anyway)
Never had a girl give me flowers. It would flip my socks off. What a weird idea. Even if she just picked a dandelion from the lawn and gave it to me... I'd probly put it in a box and keep it forever.
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Stroke his ego, including his dick. Let him bust on your face, pick up behind any mess he makes, and pretend to be happy about it. Or you can genuinely be happy about it. It’s your choice... Wait no!!! It’s HIS choice 😘
literally just be yourself 100% of the time, there is no effort needed to be you and there is absolutely no effort in getting a guy to like you and stay with you
Be yourself, if you already do that than surprise him with a blowjob or just walk naked around him you dont even need to ask for sex just be naked or give him a massage
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I write this anonymous that my girl won't read this lol
Cook, clean, make him sexually satisfied every day and cuddle with him a lot - only of he likes it
Does he like "sexy sarcasm"? Next time he's playing a video game, sit next to him, reach into his pants, grab his "joystick", and ask, "What does this control?" or "Can I get some 1ups?" 👍
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The fact that you are thinking about it already makes you a good girlfriend.
Firstly, not every guy is same so not all things may apply to your guy. Try to do things for your guy from your heart, things which make both you and him happy. You can write notes and letters for him, what you like about him. Have deep talks with him. Hold hands, be affectionate, gentle, polite. You can talk about hobbies both yours and his.
Also be yourself and reciprocate love. That's the best thing you can do!
There are two types of men:
1) The type that aren't happy with anything and are constantly making you try to please them.
2) The type that are happy with anything and are constantly trying to make you pleased.
The second type isn't dateable. Sickening clingy fucks. There is nothing you can do to make the first group happy, so just do everything they say and it will at least help them fill the emotional emptiness inside.
i love the quote. very true. i’d ask him straight up what he needs more from you, if there’s anything you do that bothers him and in what ways you guys can improve your relationship. hopefully he answers and asks you back. a little bit of effort goes a long way and i think if you’re asking these kinds of questions, you’re probably doing a great job already.
The small things make all the difference in relationships: cooking for him and doing what he wants is always a way to make him happy. If he likes a specific sports team buy him a tickets so you can both go. If he likes racing go gokarting or something. And most guys don't really like flowers, but there is always chocolates🤤
Talk to him about it! I believe that relationships should be based on communication.. You're obviously feeling a bit insecure which is why you're turning to an online stranger fest for advice. But if you truly want to be the one for him, then ask to talk to him about it and just voice your concerns. I'd say that he would absolutely love that you feel you can trust him with anything which is what would make ME happy in a relationship. Good luck with whatever you choose to do!
Screw these jokers with the "sex is enough" part. Having sex is normal in a relationship and it's nothing that solely keeps the guy happy. Try and laugh with him, joke with him, tease him, make him feel special to you. Both my ex's made breakfast for me nearly every day and I never asked for it. I did stuff in return ofc but they did small things that kept me feeling loved and important. Anything that shows effort and love will be appreciated especially if you ask him to help you by opening up about this. Communication is key.
if you ont wanna talk sex and such i would say its about balance. let him play his games but have a game or show you both watch each week so u still have that time together. also no flowers but maybe steak or whatever food he likes or you can afford that u know is special to him. without getting to deep thats what i think you should think about. after that maybe talk about saving up for a trip or weekend together.
Obviously every guy is different but my boyfriend is simple... we do go on dates to restaurants and stuff but he really appreciates the little things like while he was at work I went round to his and made a cake, got food ready for dinner and did his meal prep for the next few days plus walked and fed his dog so that when he got home he could eat and cuddle while watching Netflix 😂 for him the little stuff like cuddles, talking, going on adventures sometimes, doing things together, back scratches, sitting in bed eating chocolate cake are the things that mean a lot to him and the fact I don’t mind he still wears batman pyjamas 😂
Ok want some tips. It the little things. You hear he's having a bad day get him his favourite snack/drink on your way home. If he has a favorite video game show interest in it and why he likes it. Seriously guys just want to know you care about what they think. Show that and you will be the best girlfriend ever.
Depends. Every man is different. I didn't want one single relationship I just wanted to be a flirt. Trying to pin me down would have been a bad idea. It's listening, watching and knowing what you're dealing with honestly because some guys are down for that and some aren't. There's nothing you cna change about yourself they will commit when they feel like it
Just as you are different from other girls, your guy will also be different from other guys. Everybody has his own likes, dislikes and preferences. So, before reaching to any conclusion, I would like to know more about your guy like what he do as profession, what are his hobbies, how he looks, and any other information which you think make him different from others (due to which you are in relationship with him instead of any other guy).
The best tip I was ever given as far as relationships go is that you both have to treat it like it's 60/40 instead of 50/50, but you both have to strive for that 60
Honestly, as long as each of you is happy, that's the way to go
If one of you isn't happy, then the issue needs to be resolved
(By the way, there is way more to being a good girlfriend than just letting him fuck you, which you should wanna do anyway)
Never had a girl give me flowers. It would flip my socks off. What a weird idea. Even if she just picked a dandelion from the lawn and gave it to me... I'd probly put it in a box and keep it forever.
Stroke his ego, including his dick. Let him bust on your face, pick up behind any mess he makes, and pretend to be happy about it. Or you can genuinely be happy about it. It’s your choice... Wait no!!! It’s HIS choice 😘
literally just be yourself 100% of the time, there is no effort needed to be you and there is absolutely no effort in getting a guy to like you and stay with you
Don’t be a good girlfriend, they’ll walk all over you and leave you at the end.
I’ve noticed the bitchy girls are treated way better than nice ones.
You’ve must have had a hard life
Be yourself, if you already do that than surprise him with a blowjob or just walk naked around him you dont even need to ask for sex just be naked or give him a massage
I write this anonymous that my girl won't read this lol
Cook, clean, make him sexually satisfied every day and cuddle with him a lot - only of he likes it
Does he like "sexy sarcasm"? Next time he's playing a video game, sit next to him, reach into his pants, grab his "joystick", and ask, "What does this control?" or "Can I get some 1ups?" 👍