He’s nice to me then ignores me? Please help? He has Bipolar?

[Anonymous]

This guy i’m dating for 2 months now after we had sex he stopped being consistent we started arguing and just turning toxic and he now only messages to ask what immdoing.

He’s so nice to me on some days and love bombs me then he will completely ignore my existence and ignore my texts it’s not like he pretends he’s not active either he simply ignores them. I’m sick and tired of just being treated this way by him. I miss him i wanna see him. The other day he was messaging me asking if i wanna meet up and now he’s just ignoring me and it hurts but i just feel numb. He actually does have bi-polar so I don't know if this has something to do with it.

What can i do! I don’t wanna ignore him back that is not in my soul or heart? I don’t wanna have a go at him either but if one of my friends treated me this way i would say something and stick up for myself so is it bad if i ask him just what’s going on? He likes space sometimes then sometimes doesn’t and i just feel likes a puppet to him.

We have good sex and get along but he always takes his mood out on me. what hurts is…he KNOWS ignoring me drives me crazy and hurts like he’s been plain blank ignoring me for 2 days when just 3 days ago he was being nice to me.

[boggboss]

Why would u get with someone thats not mentally stable then expect a stable relationship with people with bi-poler u have to be willing to give more then you take as they can be crazy erratic if u can't keep up with that why try at a relationship thats doomed to fail because u want somthing he can't give

[Asker]

I’m not mentally stable either i just know how to control it recently. He’s told me he has bipolar but i don’t know if it was true or if he meant it in a jokey way but he did seem serious. My first thought to deal with this situation is to try and speak to him about it because i’m just not the type to just ignore someone.

[boggboss]

If you are not stable either I'm not sure how u thought this situation was ever going to work that aside if u haven't even spoken to him about it u need to as he may not even know u feel ignored

[neeeeeeeko]

If you're wanting a long term relationship, he's not the one. Find someone more mature, consistent, respectful, and knows how to communicate. This guy is none of that and these are requirements for a relationship to last.

If you want help, my help is that it's better for you to leave this relationship because it's going nowhere and it's stressing you out. He's not worth it.