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Old relationship trauma resurfacing?

So I'm 26, in a semi new relationship. About 4 months in. He's a great guy. I'm genuinely happy, he brings me around his friends and family, makes me feel included and is safe to talk to. My last relationship ended...
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My ex wanted to be friends, now he doesn’t talk to me. Why?

My ex and I had a pretty messy break up. But during our 4 year relationship we respected and loved each other dearly. We split because he decided to take a “break” from us which made me question my relationship with him,...
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How can I respond better to my girlfriend when she’s being emotional?

When my girlfriend is sad I don’t know how to handle the situation or act. Most of the time I feel like she’s overreacting (I don’t tell that) but how can be more comforting? My father was emotionally “abusive” growing up...
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WHY DID MY friends with benefits GET ALL SH*TTY AT ME FOR TALKING ABOUT ANOTHER GUY?

So I was in a friends with benefits relationship with a friends for a long time but also met another guy whilst I was seeing this friends with benefits. I now have a bad relationship with the Current guy I’m seeing as...
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WHAT DID HE MEAN BY THIS STATEMENT?

So I was in a friends with benefits relationship with a friends for a long time but also met another guy whilst I was seeing this friends with benefits. I now have a bad relationship with the Current guy I’m seeing as...
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Out of toxic relationship, met dream guy but I’m still walled up what do I do?

I got out of a mentally and abusive 2 year relationship about 2 months ago, I wasn’t planning on meeting anyone new for a long while but this guy came into my life and he’s literally everything I could want, he is so...
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How should I handle this? Breakup, cancer diagnosis, complicated emotions?

I am trying to keep this as short as possible. Please only comment if you can be kind, as this has been more than tough enough already. My ex and I had a bit of a complicated relationship. He had trust issues from an ex...
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Is it reasonable to decline a date/going out with a guy who is friends with my abusive ex?

I matched with this guy on a dating site and I knew he used to be acquaintances with my ex since he was at a party my ex hosted when we dated. I have been apart from my ex for 2 years but the last half of our relationship...
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If a girl who liked you brought a meal for you at work, would that give her bonus points?

I really like this guy and we work for the same company but in different buildings. He knows I like him (i told him) but I am taking it real slow and easy on him because he got out of an awful abusive relationship months...
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Is this signs of Narccist? Will this turn abusive?

I’ve been to therapy for my boyfriend because his behaviour is really like killing me and my friends call him a narcissist. He gets really mad at me for no reason? Threatens me and in a month in the relationship was gonna...
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Will our relationship last?

On our first date my current boyfriend made a move on me to have sex, which we did. He even told me that he loves me and asked if we are now boyfriend and girlfriend. At first, I told him no and that I wa sa not...
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Would a narcissist leave you if they feel you slipped through their control?

He always tried to gaslight me, lovebomb, tell me how much he cared about me and loves me, but all I was receiving was invalidation, devaluation and absolute control, to the point of making me not post photos of me on...
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Am I too controlling as a parent?

When my son was a new born, I didn’t want to send my son to daycare because I didn’t want strangers handling him. I won’t know what happens behind closed doors with these “strangers”. They would be bad people or abusive....
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Why Do Some Men Seem More Attractive Than Others To Women?

Is it because the guy is more confident? Or is it because he is more “alpha?” I’m going to say that it is neither of these things. Being more confident can lead a person to be overly confident and becoming cocky to the...
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Can a Christian man use the Bible to abuse?

Can an abusive person be at the same time a religious person? I'm still digesting the things I went through while being with my ex. He considered himself religious and read the Bible a lot, but his actions were very...
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Why would a man continue to be in an abusive relationship with a woman that he already knows he sees no future with?

His girlfriend beats him up, restricts him from going out with his friends, tells him who he can and can’t have on Facebook and social media and she’s a messy person who always leaves a mess whenever she stays over at his...
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His girlfriend beats him up, restricts him from going out with his friends, tells him who he can and can’t have on Facebook and social media and she’s a messy person who always leaves Show More
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Should cheating be seen as abusive behaviour?

I mean if they keep cheating and this person has cheated in most of their relationships, should it be recognised as being abusive?
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What makes people go back to an abusive/cheating relationship?

You've been with an abusive or cheating partner for 3 or more years, and you always forgive them every time they cheat. Why do some people not move on and start fresh? What makes them stay in this toxic cycle?
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What would you do if someone that you loved, cheated on you and gave the reason that's because call you are fat?

He did. My ex of 5 years in relationshio. In fact been so proud of telling me he had f**k other slim girls many times, also been cheated beind my back. Oh yes, i was under influenced of a narcissistic. Nothing ever enough...
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My boyfriend said he is going to propose and hasn’t What gives? Advice please?

My boyfriend and I are both 20 years old, he’s turning 21 in December. We’ve been together for a little over 2 years and we’ve lived together for over a year. We moved in together after we had been in a relationship for 9...
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