Search Results: moving on with your life

No, I don't plan on getting married right now but I'm not going to lie when I say it's been in the back of my head for the future. Been seeing each other since September of last year. If you met us in real life you'd think we were already married. She's still in school but will be making good money as a Nurse soon enough. I'll be working in the engineering field very soon and have a good salary. Would be able to easily support us both while she finishes. Still want to go to grad school though.

I've experience more life than most guys my age. I was in Marine Corps after high school. I've experience a lot of crazy party years. I've had non-stop promiscuous sex when I was single. I've had previous relationships. Went through the police academy when I originally thought I was getting into law enforcement so I got to experience that even though I've decided to go with engineering. Going to be working in my field soon. (maybe reserve law enforcement later on). Right now, I don't feel I'd be giving up anything. I'd be excited moving into the next chapter so to speak.

If everything keeps going forward, I might be considering to make it official a year or so from now. I'm almost certain she would say yes. It's just a thought as of right now, nothing certain. I know the conversation between us is only imminent at this point. She's 21. I'm 23. What are the benefits of marrying at a younger age? What are the pitfalls? Any first hand experience?

My current roommate are scoping out apartments/houses today close to university. So I honestly don't know if I should be moving in with my girlfriend. She is practically over all the time anyways and our situation is working fine as it is. She is cool with my roommate and all of my friends. Even if I'm not home she will sometimes be over here in my room using my computer waiting for me to get out of class if she is staying for the night. So she practically already lives with me.

My roommate wants to get a 3 bedroom with one our friends. It's got a big backyard and 2700 square ft. Right next to campus. Backyard is appealing because I will finally get my German Shepherd since they will allow it. My roommate and friend are solid. Clean. Both part time firefighters so they got they obviously got their shit squared away. This option seems the most appealing to me

Other option is my other buddy who is getting a 6 bedroom with a bunch of guys who I already know and get along with. Right next to campus as well. They party a lot but are still clean and respectful. It would be a lot fun to live with these guys forsure.

Then of course I have the option to get a place with my girlfriend. We've been seeing each other since the start of fall semester. Doesn't sound like a long time but you'd think we've been dating for years if you met us. She lived with me and my folks part of winter break and it was pretty fun. I like our situation the way it already is though. Don't know if she is going to be offended if I don't suggest we get a place together. Hasn't been brought up yet.