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Search Results: noticing appearances
Girls, Why do I get more attention from girls when I wear jeans and a nice shirt?
I know this question is silly but I've noticed something. You see... my school has a uniform policy which a lot of people disobey for the most part lol. I usually wear it all the time and when i do it seems like i get no...
Patmedley26
Xper 7 Age: 28 Being attractive and socially awkward?
I'm a 19 year old college student and I never get dates. I've always been painfully shy and in high school I was really awkward too. I've worked on it a bit now in college, but I'm still very shy, and the fact that it's...
reassumeart
Xper 4 Age: 29 Why software developers dress and act differently?
Being in a male dominated technology field, I came across lots of software programmers who don't care about their appearance. They have poor sense of fashion, some have long hair, don't shave facial hair and some are fat....
Anonymous
(36-45) What is considered being "shallow"?
When it comes to looking for guys, I can't help but notice their appearance first. So I feel like that makes me shallow, but I don't go for conventional "hot" appearances. I honestly don't care if you have a six pack abs...
pdxgirl
Xper 5 Age: 32 I'm so confused and don't know why I feel like this, any help?
So i've known my best friend since i was about 2 years old, never went to the same school or anything but we met at nursury and have remained great friends ever since. In the past 2 years i have noticed her changing, she...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does he have feelings for me?
So this guy, let's call him Kyle, has been sending me mixed signals for some time now. We go to school together and I've kind of developed a crush on him. He is really nice to me, he doesn't like too many people who are...
Anonymous
(25-29) 23 year old girl never had a boyfriend, is it normal? What can I do?
I'm a 23 year old girl. I'm kind, sweet, and intelligent. No, I'm not overweight or unattractive, actually quite the opposite, but for some reason I've been extremely unlucky in love and never had a boyfriend or dated...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is she interested in me? Did she try to get my attention?
So I sat down at a table with this girl. I came to study. She was at the end of the table and I was at the other end with 1 chair between us. We were sitting on the same side. I was reviewing my work. When I realized...
Myxzz
Xper 4 Age: 29 Why are those who have a "racial preference" usually unattractive?
I've noticed this with a good majority of them. They'll have their nose in the air stating that they have a preference (and act as if they are better off by not dating that race), when I look at their physical features...
Anonymous
(36-45) I don't know if girls are interested and not approaching, or I'm just plain ugly or something?
I'm 16 year old boy who used to not care at all about his appearance, and I still don't really that much, but High School gets to ya. If every single girl ended up thinking my style and I were just ugly I wouldn't change...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do men specifically not credit black women as beautiful?
It seems many men just hate black women. Well hate is a strong word, but a lot of men seem to not like them so much. Did black women do something to men for men to be so turned off by them? There was a question someone...
Anonymous
(30-35) The "Nice Guy" Debate
One thing I notice a lot these days is why nice guys are the worst debate. The reason for this is I can see a lot of this being misconstrued and loads of genuine, accepting guys changing their ways and becoming A-holes...
Cwis333
Xper 5 Age: 34 Why I Think The Statement "I Don't Date A Certain Race" Is Actually Quite Racist, And Why I Think Women Are More Racist Than Men In Dating
I've noticed many people saying this, mostly on the internet but enough times I've heard it in real life as well to realize its nothing uncommon to feel this way about dating and racial preferences. Now some of you think...
alphadoggystyle
Xper 6 Age: 36 My BestFriend Is Trying To Be A Better Me?
I have this bestfriend that i have been friends since forever, we're both 19 years old and i feel like she tries to out do me in everything.. ill give you a couple of examples. 1- i would always say im poppin', im that...
Anonymous
(30-35) Common Mistakes I Think Women Make When Asking Out/Dating Men
It’s been a long time coming, but here it is: just like my earlier myTake, Common Mistakes I Think Men Make When Asking Out/Dating Women , I’ve finally done a female version as per requested. I’m not going to lie, I was...
Does this guy like me or was he just being polite?
Does this guy like me or was he just being polite? When I first saw this guy, we held eye contact and he smiled at me. Then when I saw him again (a few months later) I caught him staring at me, and he looked away really...
Anonymous
(25-29) My friend said guys don't want to date me because I'm too intimidating, smart, and sassy? Aren't there guys who would want that?
I'm 21. I've always focused on my academics throughout my life; I have a good head on my shoulders and a quick and sharp mind. It's one thing I do feel grateful for (my genes, upbringing, and ability to help my brain grow...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does he like me or seem interested?
When I first saw this guy, we held eye contact and he smiled at me. (Maybe he was just being polite, I don't know). Then when I saw him again (a few months later) I caught him staring at me, and he looked away really fast...
Anonymous
(25-29) Older Women Become Recyclable When They Age
Older women becoming recyclable with age, is a perspective that is shared amongst a great majority of men, who refuse to date women their own age. They parade themselves around, arm in arm with their much younger woman,...
Stacyzee
Editor Age: 40 Could We Live In A World Where We Are Not Judged By Our Physical Appearance?
Let's imagine that ones physical appearance is not the first thing that is seen. Let's pretend that we are bubbles, floating around on planet Earth. The most dominant personality trait one possesses, would be the...
Stacyzee
Editor Age: 40 