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It is PC approved to say that appearance doesn't matter and OF COURSE we shouldn't "fat shame" anyone. That means that you aren't supposed to have any negative thoughts or feelings towards anyone just because they weigh as much as a baby elephant. That's a wonderfully exalted and elegant theory of the way things ought to be but it simply fails to account for the real world.

For real people, appearance is a big factor in physical attraction. I am attracted to some women and not others; I like petite, diminutive women who have a cute face. I am not attracted to significantly overweight women. You can send me to a PC re-education center and have me sit through sensitivity training classes until the cows come home

and I still won't be attracted to seriously overweight women. I have dated women who were 10-20 pounds overweight but that is the limit for me. I never told a girl that I did not want to date her because of her size, but I never dated a girl who I thought was abnormally large.

Fortunately, none of my partners in long term relationships ever gained any substantial weight while we were together. I'm not sure that I would have left them because of that. I probably would have talked to them, inquired about possible depression, medical conditions causing weight gain, offered to help them with dieting and exercise, etc. But I don't think I could stay in a relationship with a woman who was 5' 4" and 190 pounds.

Could you do it? Could you stay with a partner if they gained a significant amount of weight?

(SJW's: If you don't like what I said, I don't want to hear from you! Save you opinion for someone who actually cares about what you think.)

Hi. I'm a 29 years old who wants a girlfriend, but I'm kinda invisible to women.
I'm very shy so I don't talk to unknown girls and they don't approach me...

5'7, balding, zero muscles and a little bit overweight... When I was a kid I was skinny and sometime some shy gurl had a crush on me so I am thinking if I can have more chances to attract girls becoming skinny again... I'm not gym type at all and I spent my days at computer and videgames haha but I'm not nerd...

I'm caucasian but I'd like to become slim like some Asian kpop guys to becoming 'cute' again but I'm not sure... Maybe it is better to remain chubby because smallness and thinnes are feminine traits?

So almost a week ago I had vegan talking to this girl we had a pretty good connection right off the bat and we talked through text for a while. She had sent me a pic of her in a dress since she was trying some on for her upcoming birthday. And i saw that she was a pluser sized girl. And she was really pretty and looked really good in her dress. And usually I'd just be like ok cool and keep It going we finished talking soon after. But I knew I didn't wanna date her after and for me there's a few reasons for that and It has more too do with me and what I'm trying to change In my life and how that will most likely conflict with her life or benefit her but that's her choice not mine. But anyway I stopped talking to her now at this point and feel bad was what I did wrong?