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My girlfriend and I broke up because she wasn't ready for the commitment of a relationship.

We dated for about 6 months. She was loads of fun. We were perfect and everyone else thought we were perfect. Then recently, she was stressing out about it and it eventually got to her. I noticed that she had been distancing herself.

She's been more independent than me and doesn't like to talk about her/our problems and she felt that if we went longer than we should, our relationship wouldn't be healthy. Now, she suggested that we could try to be friends but back then, I don't know if I'll be comfortable with that, at least right then.

At this point, it's been 3 months since we've broken up. I got over her. We became friends (because we are in the same friend group so it made it easier to do stuff) and we talk now and then but nothing is the same. I just can't get to close to her without memories coming back up. I've then come to realize that I like her, again and I don't know what to do. I told my friends and they gave me the warnings and possible consequences but they support me.

Two months later, I have tried to shake that feeling off but I still feel the same. I'm trying to evaluate ourselves and look for the signs. I can't really tell what is going on. Sometimes I can't tell if she's being flirty or just really friendly. Given our history it could be either one.

Guys and girls, I don't know what to do. Love is really complicated when it comes to me and especially with her. I don't want to mess things up but I also don't want to sit here day dreaming about the fantasy about us back together. I think we are good for each other but we both haven't dated a lot of people before and maybe we were just too inexperienced then.

I don't know if she's ready. I don't know if she has changed her mind about anything. It's all too confusing for me and the only answer to me is to try to get back with her. Should I try to get back with her? Should I just remain friends?

My best friend and crush has known for a few months I like her but back when I told her she was grieving over the end of her relationship and wasn't interested in anything with anyone. No problem, we continued as friends and have never mentioned it again
Recently I have felt us getting even closer. I have felt some of our times becoming pseudo-dates (or pseudo-double-dates with couples we know). But no definitive sign so I haven't acted.
I now live a little bit away from her so we no longer meet casually every 1-2 days. Its now been over a week without seeing each other. I can't remember the last time that happened. The last 2 days there was no contact at all. Very strange for us. (Yes, I know that means Im guilty too)
Last night I got these txts:
"Thank you so much for the help you gave me the other week. The data was perfect. I dont know if I actually thanked you for that... I can buy you a drink at our pub... Maybe we could go to that Italian restaurant we went to 2 weeks ago. On a Friday so we can listen to the live music together. But it must be next week as Im out of town with my daughter this weekend"

Is she asking me out? Or is it likely just 2 friends hanging out?