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So I started talking to this girl. When we started talking everything was going good. We texted everyday and called almost everyday. She even said she had a dream of me and her cuddling lol. That was cute. But a while ago she broke up with her boyfriend and things just went downhill. We haven’t really talked or anything. She sent said this to me a week or two ago. She said she's gong to be honest., She needs a friend rn more then a boyfriend. She isn't fully rejected me but she doesn't think it would be fair to lead me on or anything. She said we could definitely have something in the future and she is unsure right now of her maturity and what I need is something she can give. She needs time to figure herself out. The last few years she's been really focused on her mental and emotional health since thats what she needs before she feels that she's ready to fulfill another partners need. She said she has issues she needs to sort out and doesn't want me getting caught in the crossfire. She said she really likes me, she does but she recognizes she needs to do things first. She apologized for leaving me on read for days saying some days she doesn't feel like talking to anyone. Last thing she said was she needs to learn how to have a healthy relationship since the few she's been in haven't gone so well. I mean she still likes my post and stuff but hasn’t responded to my text back to her since Monday.

So I’ve been talking to this girl well I was until she broke up with her boyfriend. Before she broke up with him, things where going good. We talked on the phone almost everyday and texted everyday. She even said she dreamed about me and her cuddling once. That was cute. Then she broke up with her boyfriend and went cold. She sent me this a few weeks ago. She said she's gong to be honest., She needs a friend rn more then a boyfriend. She isn't fully rejected me but she doesn't think it would be fair to lead me on or anything. She said we could definitely have something in the future and she is unsure right now of her maturity and what I need is something she can give. She needs time to figure herself out. The last few years she's been really focused on her mental and emotional health since thats what she needs before she feels that she's ready to fulfill another partners need. She said she has issues she needs to sort out and doesn't want me getting caught in the crossfire. She said she really likes me, she does but she recognizes she needs to do things first. She apologized for leaving me on read for days saying some days she doesn't feel like talking to anyone. Last thing she said was she needs to learn how to have a healthy relationship since the few she's been in haven't gone so well. We did talk a few days ago but she hasn’t responded back. She does like my post on Instagram and views my stuff on fb but like yeah.

So I started talking to this girl and like when we started talking things were going really good. Like, we would text everyday and call almost everyday. She even told me she had a dream of me and her cuddling and that was cute lol. Then she broke up with her boyfriend a while ago and things have kinda gone down hill. We haven't talked much and like i miss her. I know she's probably trying to move on from her ex and like isn't ready for a relationship. But like this is the last thing she sent me which was a week ago, She said she's gong to be honest., She needs a friend rn more then a boyfriend. She isn't fully rejected me but she doesn't think it would be fair to lead me on or anything. She said we could definitely have something in the future and she is unsure right now of her maturity and what I need is something she can give. She needs time to figure herself out. The last few years she's been really focused on her mental and emotional health since thats what she needs before she feels that she's ready to fulfill another partners need. She said she has issues she needs to sort out and doesn't want me getting caught in the crossfire. She said she really likes me, she does but she recognizes she needs to do things first. She apologized for leaving me on read for days saying some days she doesn't feel like talking to anyone. Last thing she said was she needs to learn how to have a healthy relationship since the few she's been in haven't gone so well. Like I don't know we don't even talk or anyhting and I feel like maybe she just doesn't like me no more and I'm just wasting time and it sucks.

So I started talking to this girl and like when we started talking things were going really good. Like, we would text everyday and call almost everyday. She even told me she had a dream of me and her cuddling and that was cute lol. Then she broke up with her boyfriend a while ago and things have kinda gone down hill. We haven't talked much and like i miss her. I know she's probably trying to move on from her ex and like isn't ready for a relationship. But like this is the last thing she sent me which was a week ago, She said she's gong to be honest., She needs a friend rn more then a boyfriend. She isn't fully rejected me but she doesn't think it would be fair to lead me on or anything. She said we could definitely have something in the future and she is unsure right now of her maturity and what I need is something she can give. She needs time to figure herself out. The last few years she's been really focused on her mental and emotional health since thats what she needs before she feels that she's ready to fulfill another partners need. She said she has issues she needs to sort out and doesn't want me getting caught in the crossfire. She said she really likes me, she does but she recognizes she needs to do things first. She apologized for leaving me on read for days saying some days she doesn't feel like talking to anyone. Last thing she said was she needs to learn how to have a healthy relationship since the few she's been in haven't gone so well. Like, I really like her but I get that maybe I'm overthinking?

I have been told my emotional and social maturity is 4 years behind. For example, I am 22, so my socio-emotional maturity is equivalent to that of an 18 year old.

When I was 20, I dated a 16 year old girl. We never were official, but I did feel like at the time, we were around the same maturity.

I wonder however, if my immaturity stems from untreated anxiety and mental illness, or if my brain has not developed to where it needs to be.

Bottom line, is this something that I can treat with therapy, or is something that involves time and physiological development?