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This is Jenkins (the griefer). He spends most of his daytime playing PC (WoW or COD). He lives in his parents home in their basement and has stashes of Doritos and Mtn Dew. He works in a part time job as truck driver occasionally so he gets some money he needs to replenish WoW subscriptions and his stash of Doritos and Mtn Dew and other stuff. His daily schedule is getting up at 10:00 and goes to bed at 02:00 and between that time he plays on his PC. He doesn't know how to talk with women and his social circle consists of online friends. His interests are video games and PC electronics.

This is Briar. Briar is VERY rich! He owns his own property with garden and pool, drives a SUV and is a businessman, that sometimes involves in illegal activities in order to keep the cash flowing. He is also the oldest of all the others. He believes himself to be a so called alpha-male and he has no morals, no respect and is super arrogant. He believes, that women are sex objects and is willing - if you go on a date with him - to spend up to $1000 on you on the dates in fancy places and expensive gifts in order to claim you and get in your pants whenever he demands.

This is Logan. Logan is a senior college student in a STEM field and he is the top student in his group. Although he doesn't have friends and is an outsider, he is pretty laid back, calm and ambitious. He doesn't have money however he keeps trying to apply for any job he can get no matter the price. His hobbies are PC gaming (COD for example) and science. He has no social skills but keeps browsing on GAG because he is an open minded person with morals. He also never had a girlfriend and sex before. He is also the youngest of all.

This is Mark. Mark works full time as warehouse worker. He has a problem with smoking/drinking, constantly complains about it and doesn't do anything to solve these problems. Hence he never has money because of his seemingly addictions.

So my girlfriend of 8 years with some huge ups and downs (she has a drinking problem and turns violent) wanted to go to a major country concert a couple hours away. When I said I wasn't into it, she posted on FB that she was looking to go if someone had any extra tix avail and is fun at concerts. She told me that her friend from HS reached out and invited her (he bought two Tix but recently broke up with his gf) when I told her it bothered me she said "it's the same as when you go to things where all these young girls in bikinis are at without me" referring to when I hang at the beach with my buddies and their wives and wives younger sisters while my girlfriend is working.
Also, she changed her FB settings so I can't even see her friends unless they are mutual friends. Says she doesn't know how to fix it.
Before she confirmed this concert date I invited her to a different local concert for the night before and now I'm not even sure I want to take her.
Should I be concerned?
Happy to provide more info if you need it.
Thanks.

OK, I'm 26 and my little sister is 23 years old and she lives in the appartment with me. When she was 6 and I was 9, our mom died and our dad (who was a mysogynistic asshole) started drinking heavily and he physically beat her on a regular basis up until she was about 12 years old. I rember after he beat her she would always come to me for consolance and I would hold her and soothe her to sleep. Don't get me wrong, my sister is an incredibly sweet and caring person, but 6 years of continous abuse took a heavy toll, left her with severe PTSD and stunted her emotional growth (right now she has about the level of emotional development as a 9 year old). When she was 18, she moved in with me at my appartment and she's like my best friend in the world and because of her PTSD, she's an extremely affectionate person. Whenever we see each other after work she gets a long hug, she snuggles up next to me and we share a bed and cuddle together each night. We talk for a bit and I usually play with her hair or rub her back to put her to sleep. Because of her PTSD she has trouble falling asleep alone and even if she does she has nightmates. I know some people might find the thought of cuddling a sibling weird but I don't. Now I never got aroused but I think it's nice and relaxing to hold a warm person who you know loves you more than anything next to you. And when she's asleep and I'm holding her she looks so sweet and innocent and it makes my heart melt. But latley I started seeing this girl and as our relationship started to get more serious, I encouraged my sister to go to counseling and she did and she started taking anxiety medications. But my girlfriend said that if she's going to stay in a relationship with me, I have to tone down the affection levels with my sister. I told her that I plan on it but these things can't be fixed overnight, but she says I have to stop now or else she'll break up with me, what should I do?