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Let's say a teenager vaguely recalls something that happened when she was 4 years old. Though her memory is hazy, and her mother swears it wasn't real, she remembers a male friend of her mother's giving her leg massages. They were alone on a bed, and she doesn't remember wearing pants at the time. He would rub her legs and bottom after her mother left for work. One day, he touched her private area, and the girl freaked out on him. She told her mother and the guy swore it was an accident. Another time, while taking a shower, her mother asked the guy to help the child. She refused and yelled at him until he left the bathroom.

If you had to compare this to something like a traumatic event, what number on the scale would it be? 0 is none at all and 10 is the highest. Don't know why I chose the word bad, but whatever... What I really mean is "wrong."

I'm wondering what's guys ' opinions about this but girls can answer too of course.
By full time housewife I mean someone who:
-Cooks everyday
-Cleans everyday (legit cleaning like dusting, vacuuming, washing the dishes, doing laundry, folding clothes, mopping) making the house 100% clean
- takes care of kids, feeds them, showers them, helps them doing their homework

I think some people think that being a housewife means doing nothing all day which couldn't be further than the truth in my opinion.
When my father married my mom he gave her complete freedom to choose and he told her that either way he's taking charge of all the finances (my Mom has a law degree but she's a housewife).
I doubt I will be one but I wouldn't mind being one if we can afford it and having a degree to fall back on is important too.