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I was drinking with some friends and one of them can't handle his beer and ends up running his mouth a lot about past fights he says he is over which he clearly isn't since he always brings it up.
I got tired of him disrespecting me so I told him to punch one time and get over it but he wouldn't so I had to egg him on pushed him around a little bit so he could stop being a little bitch and just hit me so he could let the past go.
He eventually hit me and everything was squashed (I thought) then he kept trying to walk away from us (like he does everything in his life). I tried to talk him into staying because he was drunk and miles away from home and a complete idiot that doesn't know his way around the city he grew up in (pathetic I know).
While we were talking another friend of ours started picking on him because I was trying to squash some stuff between us. So my friend (who is twice my size and 3x other friend) (jorge is small guy and victor is big guy). after victor tried picking on jorge, jorge walked away and I told victor to leave him alone I sat him down and pushed him a little to show him I was serious that I would take care of jorge. (My Brother was there and heard me sticking up for jorge) after I told victor to fuck off and leave jorge alone I walked back over to jorge but he hopped the fence and started walking away and I was walking over to catch up to him. Our other friend (Abel) was talking to jorge while I was tellin victor to leave him alone. So I walked back to talk to jorge and tell him sorry and I'll take him home. But I stopped to talk to abel to see why he was leaving and the nxt thing I know I hear my brother shouting from across the park we were at to look out for victor because he took off, jumped the fence and chased down jorge like a rabid dog and sucker punched him from behind. I jumped the fence as fast as I could and stopped victor and took a pretty good boot to the face Got a busted lip and jorge ran off and now blames me for it all.

When I was very young, I used to get in a lot of fights and girls would also hit too, but they argued that guys shouldn't hit girls, but back then I just believed if a girl is man enough to hit someone they are man enough to take a hit, so I just fought them all equally, which I do not do now and regret.

Because I was taught by my parents that I need to be considerate of girls when I play with them or argue with them at age of 10+ , I grew up being much more gentle, very cautious of how I approached them.

But by age 16 it was not a nervous thing, more a respect thing, I wasn't scared of hurting them because I knew how to approach them, when there were situations of a more fragile girl that I incidentally hurt through a handshake or hug, I would apologise sincerely and say how I did not mean to hurt them and ask if they are okay, learning quickly the new strength level to use with that person.

Even at age 20 I believe that play fights with each other need to be very considered if it is between a guy and girl, I am considerate with girls now with play fights and I only do stuff like picking them up, teasing them to the point we are gently flicking one another, but I never put a fist on them.

P. s: For me Play fight means just a little bit of rough play but not enough to seriously hurt someone, just making contact, not in a injuring way.