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Some of my friends think it’s black men because of stereotypes: big penis, usually tall, athletic, good in bed.

Others think it’s white men, because black men are typically objectified and get married less often than white men do. White men stereotypically come from a better class, are “safer”, and have a higher net worth on average. White women and other races tend to go back to their own kind after dating black men in high school or college.

I think it’s white men, based on my experience. I have 2 friends that are software engineers; one white and one black. They’re both pretty average looking guys, equally as athletic. The black guy makes slightly more money because he got a new job, but he has a harder time dating. Their Bumble & Hinge profiles are similar, but the white guy gets twice as many matches and goes on at least one date every 2 weeks. The black guy is lucky if he has one date a month.

So ladies, what’s your type? If you don’t have a type, then what race do you think is the most sought after? Feel free to share why.

On a date, or taking her to meet your parents do you want your new girl to dress like a whore or a woman who is confident without having to dress like a sex object.

I believe that women are judged by men for what they wear even though they don't agree with it. Women still have this idea that dressing as a sex object is perfectly fine and would argue that it would be people trying to impose rules on women. Well like every thing else in the world you are judged at face value and as such you will attract the attention of men that you may or may not want. Imagine if women felt power and confidence in dressing with modesty, I believe that men would look and treat you differently.

My friend group is big on us dating and marrying women that are our type. I am the only one in the group who doesn't really have a type. I'll date any race and skin color. It doesn't matter to me. My friends think I'm struggling to get into a long term relationship because I am "not focused" and "don't know my type". They'll sometimes corner me and hound me asking, "What's your type? What's your type?"

The longest relationship I've been in was for 2 years, but that was long-distance with a white girl I met online. My other 2 relationships have been short, like 2-3 months, and they were with lightskin black girls. So by their logic, I have 2 types, white and lightskin black. Whenever I go for a white girl, they think I'm copying another guy in the friend group because he likes white girls, but he wound up marrying a darkskin black woman. Then if I go for a lightskin black girl, they think she's ugly. If I go for a darkskin black girl, they say that I need to elevate my "level of blackness" to get with her. If I go for an Asian girl, they'll say Asian girls smell bad and throw out a racist Asian meme in our group text.

All of the other guys in the group are either in long-term relationships or married. 3 of them are married to darkskin black women, 1 of them is dating a darkskin black woman, and the other 1 is dating a lightskin black woman. I think these guys are just insecure. Clearly 1 didn't marry his type, I can't tell if he's happy or not. I think they just hate me for whatever reason.

Even the white girl I dated online said that her usual type is brown hair, white, tall, and conservative. I just saw on Facebook that she married a guy who matched her type 3 months ago. By looking through her profile, she seems happy and posts him or stories about him all the time.

Should I lock-in on my type which seems to be white and lightskin black? Or should I still date all races and ignore these guys? What has your experience been if you're married? Should type matter?