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People often say that people pair up with those that are like minded, and that the good girl pairs up with the good guy and party girl with party guy etc. However, this is an ideal concept and the world is anything but ideal. The reality is that people don't often pair up with those of like minded. And in the case of women being good or bad really doesn't hold much weight when it comes to their attraction towards men. What takes paramount is looks, money and status.

So your a good man. However, you are born average looks and you don't have high social status or wealth. Overall around your time in your early -mid 20's you won't get a good woman to look at you. The reason is because the good woman would be chased by and/or pursue after better looking men, rich men and/or more popular men than you for relationships and looks (hypergamy).
So as a good man your left out with a choice of continuing the course with a lack of love or switching from going after decent women for girlfriends and target lower quality women.

So should good men who are having a hard time getting the good, woman and switch to lower quality women for love?

Example:
Rather than going for a girl who is nice, decent, doesn't sleep around and come from a good family with morals and values maybe start being more open to date a girl who is a stripper and has loose morals and values on things. Tends to be very sexually open also.

What you guys think?

This applies both ways but I wanted to know that if it's a girl if it matters. I recently found out that my current girlfriend of 5 months slept around in her past, she's grown so its expected. she's 29 and with the way that people are nowadays does it really matter if your current girlfriend or S/O slept around in the past? And if so why>?