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I have always had this anxiety when I use the restroom. I try to turn on the water just to mask off the noise. For this reason, I try to avoid the restroom at my friend's house...

I am not a specialist but could it be because I am still a virgin? I might be saying the stupidest thing rn but... could it be the reason why I pee so loud?

So there is this guy that goes to a few of my classes and we are both majoring in the same program. I will be honest there was a part of me that knew he was gay based on how he talks, his mannerisms, and so on. Anyway since last semester I started to question why he acts so strange around me. He would act like he is terrified to death of me (keep in mind I am an alternative girl), sometimes he avoids me, he will feel comfortable talking with other people except me (in fact he will often grow quite with me), when I try to be friendly with him during a few exercises in my acting classes, sometimes he acts like a cat got his tongue when I try to talk to him (do keep in mind I am a shy and introverted person so even I am like wtf), one time at the end of an acting exercise I did with him, he gave me a thumbs up (I am not sure what that means but I assume that was his way of being approved of something), he said my name wrong a few times on accident, whenever we do lock eyes with each other he will look at me with relaxed eyes, he fixes his hair when he sees me from a distance, he came up and tried to strike a conversation with me once, he will say bye to me sometimes especially when it is just the two of us around and nobody else, one time his face lite up when he said bye to me, when I did acknowledge his existence and said hi to him he would give this prolonged eye contact, and in the beginning of the second semester we bumped into each other and he acted surprised saying “oh it’s you... good morning”. Those are just the few examples. Anyway, I am not sure what the reason is for his behavior around me... is he secretly attracted to me? Does he have a straight crush on me? Is he repulsed by me? Is it because he knows that I like him and trying to keep his distance? Does he want to be my friend but doesn’t know what to say to me? I don’t know what his deal is maybe I am over reading his actions when it turns out to be nothing? Someone please send help, lol.

I bet us chicks could avoid fooling ourselves with guys if we think like dudes?
I admire dudes so i like to see how they think and i think that guys are more chill and straightforward.

Us chicks get caught up in fairytale land. We believe in love at first sight. We think a guy asks us out cause he sees our soul before even knowing anything about us. Not saying it ain't possible but generally, since guys are so realistic... They just see how you're a pretty face they wanna look at more LOL.

Now think about it if you're confused if a guy really wants to be with you seriously... Just ask if you have goals and a lit of stuff in common. Often we think a guy likes us but we forget there's no reason for him to like us. Think like him. would you really want to be with a guy you have no goals, beliefs, temperaments in common with? Like wtff?

Its not just cute guy + cute girl = fairytale